-- Posted by Greater than Angels at 1:47 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I have only had one relationship in my life so far, which was nothing but misery and heartache from beginning to end, he refused to ever trust or believe me, and everyone eventually succeeded in destroying it anyway since they were constantly telling him stupid lies just because they all hate me for no reason and I don't even know them and they don't even know me, saying I was cheating on him and a whore and shit, which was all pure lies... and eventually he believed them over me. Which is ironic since I am the fiercest anti-sex/whore nazi in the world. Alas... it was several days ago but I am still very sad. Please take me out of my despairing mood... -- Posted by Aliboo at 1:48 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I wish i could help. You just gotta take some time for yourself, do a few things you enjoy. you did nothing wrong your still a good person. just embrace this and move on -- Posted by sugarpie at 10:33 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Understand and accept that life can be tough and is tough on everyone, so it's not just you who feels victimised. Most importantly, EMBRACE being single. I too, haven't had all the best luck in love, but when I have been in a relationship, I often just wish I was single again. Embrace the freedom of being an independent women, free to do whatever you like. You don't need a man to be whole. You are perfect just the way you are. The only guys who are worth your tears and the ones that don't make you cry at all.