-- Posted by Anonymous at 2:18 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I have this friend who is gay. I have no problem with gay people because i feel it's not their choice. However what i do have a problem with is how emotional this guy is. I mean he even admits to getting mad at people because he has bad days. This guy will look for things to get mad at. I like to joke around alot, i have tons of people who are comfortable with me because of that. But he wants to take it personal, now when he makes jokes i say nothing cause im a guy im used to it. Then he's always getting mad at me about something. I'm just not comfortable with him thinking that he gets to be treated like a girl. He's not a girl, but i think he wants to be one. He acts like "i'm a girl so feel sorry for me and treat me differently than you would a guy." I think he's taking the gay thing too far and using it as an excuse to act like a girl. He even goes as far as to put down guys. -- Posted by rileyana at 2:19 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 im kinda confused -- Posted by JTHM at 2:22 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I know very, very few girls who fit the description of pity-mongers, so I don't see how his sexuality really applies. A gay man can be moody just because he wants to be moody, not because he's gay. Some people are just naturally abrasive, and tend to feel like the butt of jokes. It happens, but still doesn't mean he's seeking "special" treatment because he is gay. If it's something that truly concerns you, more than just a general annoyance, discuss it with him. Clearly, it isn't getting any better at this rate. Talk to him and see why he acts the way he does before assuming he's looking for hand-outs over his sexuality. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:14 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from JTHM at 2:22 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I know very, very few girls who fit the description of pity-mongers, so I don't see how his sexuality really applies. A gay man can be moody just because he wants to be moody, not because he's gay. Some people are just naturally abrasive, and tend to feel like the butt of jokes. It happens, but still doesn't mean he's seeking "special" treatment because he is gay. If it's something that truly concerns you, more than just a general annoyance, discuss it with him. Clearly, it isn't getting any better at this rate. Talk to him and see why he acts the way he does before assuming he's looking for hand-outs over his sexuality. His sexuality applies because he uses it as an excuse to act femine and get special treatment. Moodiness is more of an emotional female trait. Where as guys are more agressive. I know your trying to excuse him being gay but he is looking for special treatment because of it and i think that's bullshit. Im straight, i don't get any special treatment. Regardless of sexuality everyone still has problems.