-- Posted by katiemydear90 at 6:46 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 so this girl who is a sophomore used to sleep with this guy named Jake. Well Jake and i had sex twice last weekend and are kinda dating i think. we had sex last night too. i didn't know she used to hook up with him before last weekend but found out tuesday when deb told me. so like, is it bad that we are having sex now? could she kick me out or blackball me?? i haven't talked to her ... and i really like this boy help! -- Posted by NikkiMikki at 6:46 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 blackball you? lol -- Posted by studmuffn at 6:48 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from NikkiMikki at 6:46 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 blackball you? lol hahahahhahahahaha -- Posted by katiemydear90 at 6:51 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from studmuffn at 6:48 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from NikkiMikki at 6:46 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 blackball you? lol hahahahhahahahaha it means not let me in, that's what the guys call it anyway -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 6:53 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Have you stopped to think that maybe she doesn't care if you're sleeping with him?  Besides, I don't think they can kick you out on the premise of you sleeping with another girl's ex. -- Posted by katiemydear90 at 6:55 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from 2kewl4u2know at 6:53 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Have you stopped to think that maybe she doesn't care if you're sleeping with him? Besides, I don't think they can kick you out on the premise of you sleeping with another girl's ex. yeah i am not dumb, but i heard she liked him a lot, and i am just a freshman, and some of these girls are mean bitches. some are great. so i dunno -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 7:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 They can make you miserable enough that you won't want to be in the sorority, but actual ability to be in a sorority is based on I think community service hours and grades, not whether some girls like you or not.