-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:55 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Everything has been going badly. First, my uncle died and I feel terrible about it. The guy I am in love with broke my heart for the second time, and I can't handle it again. My family is falling apart, my parents hate me and threaten to kick me out and I'm doing worse and worse in school. I feel like I have nothing to offer in the world and that everyone would just be better off without me. I really don't know what to do. -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:00 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Please... -- Posted by Chiefette at 7:08 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Think about how you feel about your uncle dying?  Do you want to put your family through that?  What about your friends?  Do you want to not have the chance to be hurt again, because hurting, means that you are feeling, and feeling means that you have something to live for.  For everytime you are hurt, there will be something good in your life.  It may not come right away, but the person that is going to take that pain away will come into your life.  Do you want to miss that?  I am sure your parents don't hate you, they may be unhappy with things that you do, but if they really hated you, they wouldn't be threatening to kick you out, they already would have.  Doing worse in school is something that you can change.  The happier you are, the more motivation you have, the harder you will work, the better you will do.  You do have something to offer this world, whether or not you see it, you do.  Other people see it, and someday, you will. If you do this, you will never fall in love(again), get married, have child, grandchildren, have a career, all the things that life has to offer.  It may not always be easy, and it may not always be fun, but it's not something worth missing.