-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:18 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 My friend recently found out that his dad is not actually his father. It's some other guy that lives in another state. I'm trying to help him find his real father, but when i google searched his name(with state included) not much showed up, just veterans, and we know that's not him. Is there any good websites you know of that can help us find his real father? -- Posted by metacarPi at 8:19 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 yellow pages? -- Posted by Niick at 8:19 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 He can find him through an adoption agency. Edit :Sorry, I assumed it was adoption. -- Posted by ottoman673 at 8:20 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I don't think he should try and find his real father. after all.. he didn't want him to begin with. -- Posted by utheh at 8:20 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 PI, or 411 -- Posted by Gabriel Gray at 8:20 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 If you have the name and the state of residence the easiest method would be to start searching online phone books. The not so easy way would be to go through state records but often times they are not available online. -- Posted by Aero360 at 8:21 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Take it from someone who is in the same situation, tell your friend not to bother chasing down his real dad.  His step dad was there for him, his biological dad was not.  Tell him to look up to his step father as his real father, because that's who was there for him. -- Posted by kidd rune at 8:22 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 White pages Findaperson -- Posted by Gabriel Gray at 8:22 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Quote: from ottoman673 at 9:20 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 I don't think he should try and find his real father. after all.. he didn't want him to begin with. That is good advice as things don't always turn out to be so great when you eventually find him. As far as your friend should be concerned, the man who raised him is his father. He could be setting himself up for disappointment if he does meet his real rather. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:24 pm on Nov. 7, 2008 Sorry, i should've clearified this. His father doesn't know he exists, his mother kept it from his father, at a month pregnant she married another guy and that's why he believed that was his real dad.