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-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:26 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

Let's say you've been with your boyfriend/girlfriend for over a year now but have had the following issues...before ever having spent any time around your partner's family:

*** Boyfriend's/Girlfriend's "gay" sister/brother (same sex as you) has repeatedly tried to trick you into going to a nightclub the same night as her/him in order to hit on you so that she/he could get at your partner

*** Bf's/Gf's mother has called you a pest because you dared to call maybe once a day but usually less than even that

*** Bf's/Gf's Dad told your partner he didn't want you around because he basically blamed you for all the fights your partner caused

*** Bf's/Gf's younger brother called you "weird" for no good reason without ever having talked to you and without knowing anything about you

*** Bf's/Gf's littlest brother has mouthed off to/about you numerous times in the background and everyone just finds it cute and funny while you find it frustrating and embarrassing

Would you say you had a good reason to at least be uncomfortable and/or wary around them? Would you say you had a good reason to maybe even dislike them?


-- Posted by jsgirl at 11:28 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

Maybe 2 and 3


-- Posted by iHaveAlargePenis at 11:29 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

I'm too stupid to read past the first sentence.


-- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 11:29 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

Uncomfortable for all of it, dislike for some of it.  Tell your boyfriend and either he helps fix it, or spend more time at your house AWAY from them.


-- Posted by longliverock2 at 11:30 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

id be uncomfortable and not like them very much.


-- Posted by xroses are redx at 11:50 pm on Nov. 7, 2008

Yes. Those are very good reasons to feel uncomfortable. The one which bothers me most is being called a pest for calling whom your dating. If they don't even know you that well, they don't have the right to pass that kind of judgement and I probably would not want to be around my BF/GF's family if they were like that.


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