-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:14 am on Nov. 8, 2008 i have a bit of a situation going here, I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who i met from a friend, so him and i never met but we seen picture of each other etc. he only lives 4 hrs away from the state I'm in now. and he told me he was coming to see me 4 times, and each time something comes up. and i don't understand what the hell i going on. we were suppose to meet up today and he hits me up with some bullshit stating he don't know where to go, and yesterday was he don't have a cellphone he can borrow to come so he can call me to inform me that he's in my state. so idk what to think anymore, is it worth continuing, because I'm sitting at work today depress and not knowing what to think or do.   -- Posted by Mattie17 at 5:16 am on Nov. 8, 2008 maybe he isnt who he says he is. -- Posted by La La1 at 5:17 am on Nov. 8, 2008 No, it's not worth it... My friend went through a situation like this before and come to find out the girl he was "talking to" ended up being fake and the girl he thought he was talking to ended up being a whole different girl. She always made up excuses when it came down to see hi because she wasn't real...so for your sake, just give up on this guy unless he can really come and see you.. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:17 am on Nov. 8, 2008 Quote: from Mattie17 at 5:16 am on Nov. 8, 2008 maybe he isnt who he says he is. that is true? i was thinking that honesty... two great minds think alike -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:20 am on Nov. 8, 2008 Quote: from La La1 at 5:17 am on Nov. 8, 2008 No, it's not worth it... My friend went through a situation like this before and come to find out the girl he was "talking to" ended up being fake and the girl he thought he was talking to ended up being a whole different girl. She always made up excuses when it came down to see hi because she wasn't real...so for your sake, just give up on this guy unless he can really come and see you.. yea i hear you on that one. thanks for your advice. because i honesty didnt know what to think because every other day is something new. im just going to wait it out and see when he's going to run out with excuses of coming to see me.