-- Posted by tballa2006 at 5:07 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 How should I handle a girl standing me up, and not even calling! I recently asked her if she seriously wants to hang out, cause if she dont, then i would just rather her tell me! She claims she been so busy, but this weekend she was free, yet, stood me up to go party! Should I talk to her? -- Posted by Rebecca li at 5:08 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Call her. Maybe she forgot about you. -- Posted by nikki123 at 5:09 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 call her -- Posted by Zdrav at 5:38 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Best case scenario is that she honestly forgot. Worst case scenario was that she maliciously stood you up. Either one is not good. So just give her a call and leave her a message (she'll probably ignore your call anyway) and make a STATEMENT about how rude it was of her to stand you up. Don't ask her to call you back or anything, b/c if she honestly made a mistake and felt bad, she will feel the obligation to call you back anyway. -- Posted by soldierofjustice3 at 9:24 pm on Nov. 8, 2008 Ignore the hoe. Call her a few days later, and be like "sorry I blew you off this weekend I was so busy" Play it cool from then on lol. -- Posted by rabbitgirl at 5:37 am on Nov. 9, 2008 Yes, play hard to get.  Stop calling her.  Let her call.  If she doesn't, move on! -- Posted by nik1 at 11:20 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Hell no....wait for her call.