-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:48 am on Nov. 10, 2008 People... I feel like a bad person when I do that...my heart just can't make it happen..and I am really angry right now. My uncle was bad to me...I wanna kill him right now..but I can't say anything bad to him because I just don't do this to anybody..I feel bad He said infront of the whole family that I turn him on. CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS?! Anyways, I wanna tell him that I am really mad at him and that he is a bad uncle..but Idk how to express my anger.. He doesn't think he's done anything wrong. -- Posted by bornonmars75 at 6:49 am on Nov. 10, 2008 he is a prick and you should let him know -- Posted by mrbuttlover at 6:49 am on Nov. 10, 2008 I would say cut off his balls in his sleep but that is promoting harm so just do what you think is best! -- Posted by FfionFAITHLESS at 6:54 am on Nov. 10, 2008 Get someone to kill him for you, then you technically didn't do anything wrong. -- Posted by EvilEyeV36 at 7:02 am on Nov. 10, 2008 It strikes me that this uncle may very well be an emotionally abusive type of person. If anything else has happened before or after this, or you think something will happen, GET HELP. As for your problem expressing anger, it is important to be able to express such things. No one can go through life as everyone else's door mat. Even so, the first step is being able to determine the difference between just anger (ie this sorta thing) and unjust anger, but I'll assume you have a pretty good handle on that. But DO NOT LET THAT KINDA SHIT GO ON. (one other thing: was he just being a gross asshole, or was he serious? Because if he was, and you want to confront him, you probably want someone else with you when you confront him) Sorry for being kinda long-winded. That's just my advice -- Posted by The Fantasy at 7:11 am on Nov. 10, 2008 Your uncle is a creep. -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:12 am on Nov. 10, 2008 Quote: from EvilEyeV36 at 7:02 am on Nov. 10, 2008 It strikes me that this uncle may very well be an emotionally abusive type of person. If anything else has happened before or after this, or you think something will happen, GET HELP. As for your problem expressing anger, it is important to be able to express such things. No one can go through life as everyone else's door mat. Even so, the first step is being able to determine the difference between just anger (ie this sorta thing) and unjust anger, but I'll assume you have a pretty good handle on that. But DO NOT LET THAT KINDA SHIT GO ON.   (one other thing: was he just being a gross asshole, or was he serious? Because if he was, and you want to confront him, you probably want someone else with you when you confront him) Sorry for being kinda long-winded. That's just my advice He touched, and told me when we were alone that he would have married me but only if I wasn't his niece. -- Posted by EvilEyeV36 at 7:26 am on Nov. 10, 2008 OK, if thats the case, GET THE CREEPY FUCK OUT OF YOUR LIFE 100% IF AT ALL POSSIBLE. Even so, I think it might do ya some good to confront him with a much larger male friend/relative first. I doubt he's really lookin for action so much as the kick that comes from causing others pain. But find a way to cut him off, and maybe show him exactly how fucked up he is in a way that is safe for you... I SERIOUSLY doubt it would cause any change, but it might take his ego down a notch, and help you in terms of being assertive. Two birds with one stone. But do not put yourself in danger... that is the first and foremost thing.