-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:55 pm on Nov. 10, 2008 I was going out with this girl for a very short time before she broke it off and gave no reason.  We were friends before and still are friends but I still have feelings for her.  Any ideas how I can get over her?  Its been some time now but I've liked her for so long this it is hard to figure out a way not to think about her and maybe going out with her again. Best case scenario would be her asking to have me back but I don't know if that is going to happen.  I care about her so much! -- Posted by Tarebear4tina at 12:01 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Honestly, I think that u are in the friend zone permanetly for her. I get that u care about her a lot, but I really doubt she could move that way to feel the same about you. She probably would be jealous and may think she might start liking you, if she saw you moving on w/ another girl. BUt BEST CASE SCENARIO move on, I've seen too many guys get hurt in this same situation. I understand that it hurts a lot, but another girl will admire the love and fondness you bring to the table and will have it for you in return :) -- Posted by countryboy2010 at 12:01 am on Nov. 11, 2008 im in the same boat man i cant get over my ex either i wzant her back someone help me please -- Posted by gretchx3 at 12:05 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Fuck someone else... -- Posted by Anonymous at 9:20 pm on Nov. 11, 2008 Quote: from Tarebear4tina at 12:01 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Honestly, I think that u are in the friend zone permanetly for her. I get that u care about her a lot, but I really doubt she could move that way to feel the same about you. She probably would be jealous and may think she might start liking you, if she saw you moving on w/ another girl. BUt BEST CASE SCENARIO move on, I've seen too many guys get hurt in this same situation. I understand that it hurts a lot, but another girl will admire the love and fondness you bring to the table and will have it for you in return :) How can I "escape" the friend zone?  Is there any way to?