-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:11 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Ok. I'm 14 years old and i am a girl. I suffer from a eating disorder, to be more clear, this is not Anorexia or Bulimia it IS infact E.D.N.O.S. (eatingdisordernototherwisespecified)   For almost a year i have been aware of my e.d. but never known how to get help or anything... i still infact do not know, i want to tell my mum or my best friend but i clearly cannot trust them what so ever... its more of a personal thing with me not having trust for them. well... im currently in "self-recovery" which is horrible... i wish i had someone to talk to about it... and i know if i dont see a professional i will never get rid of the voice in my head... at the moment i can lower its voice (in a sense)   But i really dont know what to do...   i can do this or that or whatever   but im shy and i hate seeing doctors or GP,   help some advice please??? Love Anonymous =) P.S my e.d is signs of anorexia, like not eating wanting to be thin and stuff but some times i crack and eat like 500 cals so i purge it out. i guess if i lost 10lbs i would be anorexic but my current stats are 5 foot 2 7 stone 3 (103lbs) (157cm) -- Posted by saylsen17 at 12:12 am on Nov. 11, 2008 therapy. -- Posted by gretchx3 at 12:14 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Tell your mates.. its easier to talk to someone your own age.. -- Posted by Neilap at 12:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Quote: from gretchx3 at 12:14 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Tell your mates.. its easier to talk to someone your own age.. Thees. -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 i cant go into therepy u dumbass im 14! and i cannot tell my mates.... they wont understand -- Posted by blitzerdog at 12:18 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 i cant go into therepy u dumbass im 14!   and i cannot tell my mates....   they wont understand It's easier to tell someone your age than someone older. Ever thought about talking with a school counselor? That's part of their job and they can be very useful. A lot of them will keep it confidential as well. -- Posted by W o n d e r l a n d at 3:49 pm on Nov. 11, 2008 Well if your not interested in therapy, going to the doctor (which IS something you can do alone at 14 in most places) or talking to someone you know about it... Would you be interested in online support?? There are a few Constructive and positive online forums and support groups specifically for EDs. I would be happy to give them to you if you think it is something you would be interested in