-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:13 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Girls, would you rather have a guy ASK you to do something with you? Or would you rather have him TELL you to do it? Example: Asking You - "Hey, are we going to hang out Saturday?" Telling You - "Hey lets watch a movie and have dinner Saturday." Is this RUDE? How would you want a guy to ask you to hang out with him? -- Posted by Lauraaaa at 12:14 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Tell. It's hot. -- Posted by gretchx3 at 12:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Guys with confidence and enough balls to speak up about what they want are awsome! -- Posted by maceyface at 12:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 tell me, i mean shoot. then he's clearly communicating that he wants to hang out, but leaving the romance ambiguous, which is comfortable. i mean, thats like how i would talk to a friend you know? 'lets go shopping tomorrow.' everything else listed is really clingy and weird. -- Posted by Dass at 12:37 am on Nov. 11, 2008 yup... -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 6:29 am on Nov. 11, 2008 I would rather be the one telling, "We're going to see so and so movie, tomorrow." ;) -- Posted by nik1 at 11:07 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Actually neither one is a directive.  The second one is borderline but if you have been with the girl a long time I think it's ok.  I typically use a gentler approach such as; "How would you like to go to a movie and dinner on Saturday?