-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:25 am on Nov. 11, 2008 when we first started hanging out, she was reeally coool<--- like really. we became bestfriends in a matter of 2 nights & 3 days. she even came to NY with me during the summer to meet the rest of my family:) we told each other everything, never fought, and basically did everything together<3 when we got home, things were still the same for another month, then things took a turn:/ she only called me when her boyfriend was busy working, out with friends/family, or she wanted to know if THEY could come over my house. she completely ditches me for him, and we actually have fights because he tells her im using her? (which isnt true) he has gotten her into smoking weed again(which completely ruined her life) when she ran away- he left her to go chill with his friends. i always tell her that he is a waste of time, and she could do better. EVEN HER FAMILY tells her. nobody likes him. but she wont do anything about it. (oh and her boyfriend has called me a bitch, slut, whore, and cunt on several occasions and has hit me twice; she still does nothing) what should i do? stop being friends with her?! -- Posted by punkypanda at 7:29 am on Nov. 11, 2008 dont stop being friends with her just because she made a stupid choice just tell her straight "he is an asshole if you like being my friend and having a life outside of your bf then call me until then im gone" then just hang on the outside watch her and nmake sure she doesnt do anything totally atupid and make sure she doesnt get hurt :) thats really all you can do -- Posted by zyxwvut at 7:29 am on Nov. 11, 2008 try nd fix the problems between u to -- Posted by Rachelw at 7:31 am on Nov. 11, 2008 dont stp being her friend if he has hit you he has probably hit her to so she might be scarde to go ageinst him take her aside and talk to her -- Posted by Phoenixreturned at 8:03 am on Nov. 11, 2008 personally, if a friends boyfriend ever hit me for no reason by god i'd hit them back, just cause she's a good friend of yours doesnt mean you should let him get away with doing that. as for your friend. she sounds like she's that deeply engrossed with him that she'll do anything he says. even the worst of things. there isnt much advice i can give you sadly. but hopefully she'll come to her sences. good luck you sound like you need it