-- Posted by helpme7 at 10:15 am on Nov. 11, 2008 okay, so it was my birthday party on saturday (and my birthday). The guy I really like went and I thought that this would be the chance for me to tell him how I feel, we hung out for the first part of the night but then later on he hung out with his mate. His mate has been trying to get him with my friend who is like in love with him but has never met him. I wasn't concerned about this because he thought that she was weird for liking him but then I see them being introduced and next thing theyre holding hands, later on I see them kissing. I dont know how to feel.. The guys sister (one of my best friends) told me that he didn't want to do it, that he was forced. Its not like I should be offended, he didn't know that I liked him but he had been giving me signals for months that he liked me. Now I'm starting to think that he's like every other guy, hooking up with random chicks. His sister is asking him for the story bout what happened for me.. But I dont know if I could believe him if he said he was forced. What do I do? -- Posted by JasonGuy at 10:17 am on Nov. 11, 2008 wrong topic. sry -- Posted by RIMHfire at 10:19 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Probably got tired of you waiting. -- Posted by Tigerhawk at 10:20 am on Nov. 11, 2008 Well first of all, you mustve given HIM signs and if he wasn't asking you out, you should've asked him to hang out. That girl got her kiss because she was straight forward with her crush. But anyways, I myself wouldn't make out with a girl I just met, so I guess he's also just one of those guys. Either grab them or throw them away... -- Posted by 420trendz at 10:22 am on Nov. 11, 2008 I know what he might have gone through because a very similar thing happened to me. He probably got carried away when he found out she liked him and she was probably bold enough to hold his hand first and to kiss him and he went along with it. The relationship, if they get together, most likely will not work out. Talk to him about what really happened yourself and find out why he did it. He will most likely say "I don't know what came over me" or something of that variation. After that tell him that you really like him. That should blow his mind. There's always a shot for you and him to get together! -- Posted by wiglemasta at 10:36 am on Nov. 11, 2008 if he was "forced" it would be a 1 off so if he stays with her hes lieing