-- Posted by luc an14 at 8:38 am on Nov. 12, 2008 My friend and her boyfriend are having problems.:(The guy thinks she needs someone better than him, but everytime she wants to break up with him he won't let her go. And really I don't understand it. I can't help her cause I am so confused also. He really loves her and wants to be with her the rest of his life. But he thinks she needs someone better.And she really loves him more than anything. What should I tell her? -- Posted by RIMHfire at 8:39 am on Nov. 12, 2008 Tell him to grow a pair and stop putting himself down. -- Posted by luc an14 at 8:41 am on Nov. 12, 2008 But also to tell yall the truth eveytime I see them togethere man you can actually see how much they love each other they hold hands they say sweet names and go togethere every where. But hopefully they don't break up! That would totally suck!.:( -- Posted by mycuteFIEND at 8:54 am on Nov. 12, 2008 He seems really insecure. It's nearly impossible to be in a relationship with someone who's insecure because pretty soon his jealously might start to flare up and he may become extremely needy. I'd warn her of these things and maybe she and him should talk. She should tell him that she loves him and doesn't want to go out with anyone else. This is a sticky situation since you can't always control what your friends do, but warning her should help. -- Posted by hithere at 5:02 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 They're teenagers. When things aren't perfect, it's always back and forth, is this good or bad, do I want this or that...? I don't think it's fair to tell her what to do, but you can help talk her through things. Ask her what she likes about him and what she doesn't like about him. Ask her what you think she would like and dislike about breaking up with him. Questions like that will make decisions easier for her, so I think that's the best thing you can do for her as a friend. Either way, it's up to her, and either way, there are bad and good things.