-- Posted by oliveohm at 9:18 am on Nov. 12, 2008 i was hanging out with a few girls and these are some of the questions came up... any insight, guys? 1. when a guy says "luv ya" vs. "love you" -- is the difference meaningful? 2. if a girl really doesn't have a perfect body (the example that came up was tall, average weight/mostly in stomach, small ass, nearly non-existent boobs), is it significantly more attractive if she doesn't seem to care at all about any flaws she may have? 3. if a boyfriend is feeling upset about something but doesn't want to talk about it, what is the best way to comfort him or help him out? -- Posted by Dannay at 9:19 am on Nov. 12, 2008 Luv ya is like in a friend way etc and love you is when you love them thing like yh.. i'm crap at explaining stuff.. but i know what i mean -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 9:20 am on Nov. 12, 2008 #1-I don't think so. My cousin says love you one time, love ya another. Same with a lot of other guys I know. #2-It's definitely more attractive for a girl to have confidence #3-Just be there for him. Make sure he knows you're available to talk, but give him space at the same time. This is all from another girls POV, however. -- Posted by Chasey at 9:21 am on Nov. 12, 2008 1. What Dannay said 2. Definately 3. Sex.. Or just distract him in any other way. Go out to the movies etc -- Posted by allsmiles at 9:22 am on Nov. 12, 2008 1. I use it when I feel forced into saying the words by social standards - ie, I'd use it insincerely. I'm sure there are some people that would mean love you when they say luv ya (though the lack of "I" would point insincerity in my books) but I wouldn't consider them the sort of person I'd want to associate with. 2. It's significantly more attractive if any girl doesn't care about any supposed flaws. 3. Drop the issue. He doesn't want to talk about it. It's best to leave it alone. -- Posted by Scandol5Mossie at 9:23 am on Nov. 12, 2008 deff there is a difference.. it is.. and idk...kinna what chase said for that one.. s5m   -- Posted by lrd yikmo at 9:45 am on Nov. 12, 2008 small difference more atttractive for a gril to have confidence Just be there for him. Make sure he knows you're available to talk, but give him space at the same time.