-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:57 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I have planned out how Im going to die, and I have told people this. I know it sounds like Im trying to get their caring and sympathy which is true.. I wont do it if I know my fiends actually care. but for how many people, and how serious I get about it. noone does anything. if they cared they would actually try to sto pme -- Posted by 17ismyluckynumber at 4:58 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 how did u plan it out? i have too but there is way too much to live for<33 -- Posted by Anonymous at 4:59 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 heroin overdose + Gas my car. atleat some happiness before I die -- Posted by endoftheline at 5:00 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I guess people assume that because you're being blunt about it, it's just a passing feeling. Maybe they don't think you'd go through with it and don't want to make fools of themselves by lecturing you about how they care and how you shouldn't, when you never would have anyway. It's also a pretty common misconception that people who talk about suicide won't actually do it (when most of them, IDR the statistic, actually do.) -- Posted by energizerbunny at 5:01 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 when im feeling really depressed i think about but i tell myself no. but i dont tell anybody how im gonna do let alone that im thinking about it at all -- Posted by anc8469 at 2:28 pm on Nov. 13, 2008 Suicide is never the solution to a problem. When people want to die they usually have a reason to why they want to die. Everyone will miss you and they do care about you. I know it may not feel like it, but I'm sure there is one or more people that will miss you and they will be devastated that you would do this to yourself. Try and talk to someone like a family member or friend about how you feel. You can't hold all this in forever because you will eventually blow and who knows what you will do then. Lets not go down that path though, alright? Try at think about all the positive things in your life and not the bad things because if you do then that just makes you more depressed. If this continues and you still want to kill yourself you really need to seek medical attention and get help, because this can become serious. -- Posted by tell me again at 10:42 pm on Nov. 13, 2008 I hope you don't carry it out. People might just not know how to react, or they have misconceptions about suicide and don't really get what you're trying to say. Don't take it personally and often it's misunderstanding that keeps people from helping. It doesn't have to mean that they don't care.