-- Posted by Let It Snow at 5:47 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 My granny is about to die.. She had a massive heart attack not even an hour ago. The doctors say she probably won't make it... I can't go to he hospital because I have to wait on my sister to get home from church. And to think, she's my only grandparent left.. Wow, this sucks so bad. Another thing to add to my just so wonderful life. -- Posted by darkproject15 at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Aww Hun Im sorry  D: *HUGS* -- Posted by babecakes at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 im so sorry. =(. -- Posted by 18SoulReaper18 at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 i'm sorry. *hug* -- Posted by SCGirl09 at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 i'm sorry this is happening to you. my grandmother passed away in february, and it hurts like crazy. but you'll make it through, i promise :) -- Posted by Jman19 at 5:48 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I'm sorry. E-hugs being sent your way. -- Posted by gdeeaz at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 i am sorry -- Posted by MixedDelight at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 :( I'm sorry to hear that. I was devastated when my gran died too. -- Posted by The Stranger at 5:49 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I am sorry *Hugs* I will pray for u grandma -- Posted by HaitianGURL67 at 5:50 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Aww i'm so sorry hun. -Hugs- -- Posted by dixiegirl101 at 5:50 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 sorry just be with her as much as you can -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 5:51 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 I'm really sorry. :( -- Posted by noraa at 5:53 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Oh god, honey. I am so, so sorry. I know how bad it hurts when a grandparent dies or could die. You feel like just lying down and sobbing for hours, you are so scared. It's happened to me before, and I know exactly what you're going through. The important thing to remember is that she won't be in pain anymore. It's so hard to watch, but at least she will be happier and feeling better. It doesn't ease the pain much, but I hope it helps. Sometimes saying goodbye takes a while. You may hear her voice everywhere, or feel her when you go places. All that is normal. Death is a thing that is dealt with differently for everybody. You may feel yourself changing. It's all part of the process. Don't hurt yourself or do anything of that sort. She wants you to keep moving forward. Sure, you can have your time of sadness, that's normal. But don't shut down because she did. The dead, they kept walking their whole lives. You have to pick up after her. Stay close to your family. It may be hard to let them see you cry, but you're all crying and it's important to let your emotions out--don't bottle up. Talk to a friend, write in a journal, blast the music, get it out. PM me anytime you want, okay? I'll listen. I know how it feels. xxx Stay strong. Nora -- Posted by Amazingness99 at 5:53 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 Oh no, I'm so sorry honey. Stay strong, okay? You'll make it through. *hugs* -- Posted by agateophobic x at 5:55 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 i sorry, *hugs* -- Posted by error at 6:02 pm on Nov. 12, 2008 sorry to hear that, i hope you get to see her soon