-- Posted by ronaldo is mine at 12:09 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Is age just a number or does it really matter? Some people say things like 'Lots of people have a 5/6 year gap but they get together after both fo them have turned 18, they did't meet when one was 16 and the other was 10.' Is 17 - 21 too much? Is 18 - 23 too much? is 18 - 24 too much? is 30- 38 too much? is 16 - 21 too much? -- Posted by J BiGGZ at 12:10 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Big ass? -- Posted by nikki123 at 12:10 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 16 - 21 is too much. -- Posted by liv21 at 12:10 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Age doesn't mean a whole lot.  Maturity means everything.  If one person is in high school and the other is in college, even THAT can be a huge gap because one person has experienced far more, while the other still has some growing up to do. -- Posted by 300 at 12:10 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 im 50 lets get together -- Posted by switchfoott052 at 12:11 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 17 and 16 is too young -- Posted by SpM at 12:11 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 A 30 year old dating a 40 year old is okay. A 10 year old dating a 20 year old is not okay. It's about maturity levels, not numbers per se. -- Posted by omfg frahd chikn at 12:12 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 When I was 16 I dated a 20 year old. I'm 18 and I was with a 23 year old.. not dating FYI. I don't think any of that is really bad. But I know someone who's my age (Remember 18 YEARS OLD!) engaged to a 26 year old. And she just turned 18. Hes 26. And living at home. Momma's boy? She'll have fun with that. -- Posted by SCGirl09 at 12:12 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 I don't think most 16 year olds are mature enough for relationships anyway, even though they think they are. Actually, some 20+ olds aren't ready, either. It depends on maturity mainly. But I'd rather date someone a lot older than me that treats me like he should, then date someone closer to my age who treats me like crap. -- Posted by xXAngelofMusicXx at 12:13 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Age differences can make for ridicule and amusement of others and can work out badly in the end, but the best of relationships could have a 20 year age gap! If you can be friends with people that much older, dating that age gap shouldn't matter either. -- Posted by kooljack1 at 12:14 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 14-19? any opions on that? what if it's not a sexual relationship, more of a friends once ina  blue moon holding hands and kisses on the cheek sort of thing? -- Posted by La Motta at 12:16 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 They're all ok, apart from the last one! -- Posted by 0h h3ll n0 at 12:19 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Is 17 - 21 too much? Kind of. Is 18 - 23 too much? Yeah. is 18 - 24 too much? Yeah. is 30- 38 too much? No. is 16 - 21 too much? Definitely. -- Posted by xXAngelofMusicXx at 12:20 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Quote: from kooljack1 at 8:14 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 14-19? any opions on that? what if it's not a sexual relationship, more of a friends once ina blue moon holding hands and kisses on the cheek sort of thing? thats not really a relationship, more a friendship isnt it? are you referring to a position youre in? -- Posted by hersheyparker at 12:25 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 16 to 21 is too much but the others are fine. -- Posted by taraxgoesxboom at 12:26 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 It's more about maturity, most 17yr olds are not going to be as mature as lets say a 25yr old. It can work depending on the people, but generally not. -- Posted by JeanClaude at 12:33 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 thats ageist -- Posted by kooljack1 at 12:56 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Quote: from xXAngelofMusicXx at 12:20 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Quote: from kooljack1 at 8:14 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 14-19? any opions on that? what if it's not a sexual relationship, more of a friends once ina  blue moon holding hands and kisses on the cheek sort of thing? thats not really a relationship, more a friendship isnt it? are you referring to a position youre in? yes I am actually lmao