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-- Posted by princess timz at 12:43 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

hey people,
OK, my friend, lets call her mickey, has always been kind if weird but happy.
But since she got her first boyfriend of 5 years she's gone all weird. She tries to fit in with people and has gone all emo. And suddenly she's manically depressed even though she has a better life than most people.
Before she got her boyfriend she wasn't into make-up and stuff but since she started going out with him she wears make-up and a LOT of it!
Isn't relationships supposed to be the guy loves you no matter what you look like?
Before any of this happened she was like writing on her bebo oh I'll never change myself or my image for anyone.
Isn't wearing make-up and changing how you act, changing yourself?
She's all like oh I've got so much on my plate at the moment I just want it to stop. Everyone's is sick of it she's only after attention.
oh and since all her little friends said they were bisexual she's now bisexual!
She thinks that if you have a boyfriend you're not bisexual during that relationship, you're straight.
Thank the heavens that's off my chest.


-- Posted by LipsOfDeceit at 12:44 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

welll let her have fun trying to fit in. shes not being herself. being pathetic if you ask me.


-- Posted by Killer Tofu at 12:46 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

She probably just needed a change.


-- Posted by kooljack1 at 12:47 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

Remind her that she said she would never change for anyone and that she shouldn't.

It's stupid


-- Posted by Nightshade09 at 12:48 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

well her sexuality inst important what she should open her eyes and see is if she had to "change" who she was to please her bf then he didnt go out with her because he loved who "she" is he did it for some easy tail...sry but thats all there is to it...your her best friend you are the only one who can get through to her because she trust u the most...


-- Posted by Helios at 3:09 pm on Nov. 14, 2008

Maybe there are things happening in that relationship that you know nothing about. Maybe her boyfriend is verbally abusive and tells her she is ugly and she is trying to conform herself to fit his approval. Another less possible explanation is that her boyfriend is hitting her and she wears makeup to cover it up which would explain why she is acting so depressed.


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