-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:25 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 one of my realllly good friend's birthday was yesterday, but she's going to have her party tomorrow, BUT i just found out that my cousin's graduation and grad party is on the same day as well. i haven't seen my friend in the loooongest time. probably like 3 months now. and i don't really feel like going to my cousin's party but she's family...so idk. which one do i go to? btw, im not saying this to take revenge but, my cousin didn't even go to MY graduation. so...? -- Posted by nearlyinsane at 5:28 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 I'd say friend. Your cousin will have a crapload of other people going to her grad party anyways. -- Posted by ashleyacid at 5:30 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Go to the friends. -- Posted by ClaireBaybee at 5:40 pm on Nov. 14, 2008 Friend.