-- Posted by rainingxXxsunshine at 11:47 am on Nov. 15, 2008 I'm pretty much tired of the crap I deal with every day. I'm sick of falling for guys who will never like me because of the way I look. I'm sick of being encouraged to like him more because everyone of my friends is sure he likes me back, only to be let down again when he gets a beautiful, skinny girlfriend. I'm tired of being fat. I've eaten healthy and exercised enough to weigh half of what I do. I'm ready to just give up and stop eating if it will mean that I'll get someone to like me like i do them. I hate going somewhere and having a group of guys snicker while I walk past and then ask me for my number so they can call and say moo when I answer. I hate being different. I want to be confident, beautiful, and loved. And if changing everything about me will accomplish that, go ahead, change away. -- Posted by yellowsapphire at 11:48 am on Nov. 15, 2008 Learning to like who you are and being confident in yourself is the sexiest thing in the world. People *know* when a confident, secure person enters a room! -- Posted by Tarebear4tina at 11:51 am on Nov. 15, 2008 Girl I saw your pictures, And you a PRETTY!!! It really is just not giving a shit of what anyone thinks and being comfortable around everyone. Believe me, guys will fall for your personality and then looks. YOu seem like a cool chick, so just use that! :) -- Posted by ElephantStone at 11:53 am on Nov. 15, 2008 Try having it the other way round. The way its so frustrating when there are lots of girls wanting to go out with you. When you have a 21 year old stalker. And no one will do, theyre either not pretty enough, not funny enough, not girly enough...or if theyre everyhting thats right, theres something wrong with them and you dont know what it is. And the only girl you ever loved is 22 and wont talk to you, and then you finally meet someone who you actually like, and she accidentally gives you an invalid number so you cant call her....no way to contact her. And then you realise thats your fucking life story. It sucks doesnt it? -- Posted by catoman at 11:53 am on Nov. 15, 2008 If what your saying is you're tired oh beintg of fat stop think about i've gotten over myself being fat just don't kill yourself... remeber god works in mysterious ways. -- Posted by Taylor636Baker at 11:55 am on Nov. 15, 2008 I'm really sorry darling But please don't change ANYTHING for the sake of others You're fucking beautiful the way you are and you should rather have people hate you for what you are then love you for what you're not (stole that from a song HA) I'm sure there are SO many people that love you and although I don't even know you, I have a feeling that you're simply wonderful So about those guys? FUCK THEM You're better than them anyways and if you're patient, someone perfect for you will come along some day and he will love you and every single flaw that you have Just be patient, baby Everything will level out in good time Sorry for talking like I actually know you personally but this is exactly how I used to feel everyday so I felt the need to speak up Now get off LW and have an amazing day with your friends =] -- Posted by kendiwoo692 at 12:05 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 I feel you, girl. It's really hard to be confident for a lot of people... believe me I know. But you really can't let people get you down too much. I'm guessing you have people around you who care about you and love you for who you are. Focus on them.. not on those other people. Beauty isn't only skin deep. Being beautiful also means being confident... and people don't always get that confidence by losing weight and changing themselves on the outside. If you want to change yourself, change for YOU... not for the haters. What really matters is personality. And I'm positive that guys will come around and love you for personality, not just for looks. -- Posted by Helios at 12:40 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 "No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent"-Eleanor Roosevelt. This quote comes to mind in you situation. First of all, you are very pretty. Secondly, if the only reason you want to lose weight is to get other people to like you, then chances are you won't be happy even if you lose the weight, cause then some people will think you are too thin. Also, you say you have tried hard to lose weight? if you exercise and diet and cant lose weight, then you may have a glandular disorder that keeps you from losing weight.  medications can fix this. -- Posted by J BiGGZ at 1:10 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 You shouldn't have to change the way you look, just for another person. If you're happy with the way that you are, then that alone makes you beautiful. It's not what is on the outside, it's what is in the inside. Not everyone in this world is happy with what they look like, but that is no one's fault. God made you this way, so you should embrace it, not try to feel sorry for yourself, or try to change for another human being. If the guy that you like can't like you for what is on the inside, then he doesn't deserve to have you. You're a very special person, everyone is. The only thing that is ever ugly about a person is there personality. If they don't like you for who you are, then forget them! Go find someone who will cherish you, because believe me you deserve it. It just take times, trust me you'll find someone.