-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:09 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 I know many people believe that two people of different races should not be together but i see it completely different. I truly have feelings for this guy but i don't have feelings for him because of the color of his skin, i have feelings for him because of the type of person he is. Race really isn't important to me although to my parents, friends, and family...its everything. Its really hard sometimes and idk exactly how to tell those people that I have feelings for this amazing guy that's african american. I don't understand the difference between white and black, or white and mexican, or any race compared to any other race... I just don't know what to do... Is it wrong of me to have feelings for him as more than a friend just because of his skin? Why would God put him in my life and allow me to have feelings for him if I wasn't supposed to..?! I'm so confused and I feel completely alone. -- Posted by kay dee at 8:10 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Ha, are you serious? My family is HORRIBLY racist. My boyfriend's Hispanic. I'm [mostly] white. Go figure. -- Posted by Unaccepted at 8:11 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Why are you letting that get to you?! None of that matters! If you love the guy, then go for it! Stop with the religious and moral shit. You can be with whoever you want. -- Posted by stl man at 8:11 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 love is colorblind -- Posted by SkeeterHearts at 8:11 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Inter-Racial not Bi-Racial. But I know how you feel. My parents don't believe in the interracial thing either. And, honestly, I never  htought I'd be attracted to a black or mixed person. But, I'm dating one now. It's okay. Just let your heart tell you waht to do. -- Posted by Alice Cullen at 8:11 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 don't wory I'm attracted to this HOT mexican girl and I see nothing wong with being in love with a lack man or being attracted to a mexican or ... whatever -- Posted by Jgain6 at 8:12 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Who cares about race. Do what you want. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:13 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 oh sorry haha thats what i meant lol well i feel like stupid now lol -- Posted by gdeeaz at 8:13 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 it is not wrong that you like someone of a different race. i am multi-racial and my guys mom used to tell him only to date a Hispanic girl, i am glad that she doesn't feel that way anymore. -- Posted by Rainfallen22 at 8:14 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 haha... more often than not, im attracted to other races *shrug* love isnt something you can just choose! Its obviously a... dividing line. There is no such thing as RACE. Do want you feel is right, and dont be discouraged by your parents. Most adults grew up in a time race was everything.. but its the 21st century, and race should mean nothing by now. -- Posted by heather morghan at 8:15 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 please tell me your kidding? DONT LET THAT STOP YOU! my friends && family didnt like me and my boyfriend being together at first, look at us-- i'm EXTREMELY WHITE- and he is DARK HISPANIC; but they adjusted. That's what people are going to have to do for you. -- Posted by akSamiRae at 8:15 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Okay first off, whitrs dont have an accual race. they come from EVERYWHERE. (im white) and it kinda pisses me off how whites get all racist, atleast when someone else gets racist they know where they're coming from. AND AGAIN IM WHITE, SO IM NOT RACIST. -- Posted by cropduster at 8:17 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 If it was wrong dating would involve far to much paper work. I am not going to sit down and dig through the parentage of my girl friend to make sure she is pure what ever the hell she is. -- Posted by akSamiRae at 8:17 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Quote: from aksamirae at 8:15 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Okay first off, whitrs dont have an accual race. they come from EVERYWHERE. (im white) and it kinda pisses me off how whites get all racist, atleast when someone else gets racist they know where they're coming from. AND AGAIN IM WHITE, SO IM NOT RACIST. AANND! THE BIBLE IS RACIST, IT TALKES AGAINST RACE MIXING. GRR. (IM A CHRISTIAN TOO, SO DONT FREAK) -- Posted by txbball08 at 8:18 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 There's nothing wrong with interracial dating.  I'm white and I've dated a black girl before, and she was one of the best gf's I've ever had. -- Posted by SCGirl09 at 8:18 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 you're not wrong at all. i've completely been where you are. don't let the color of skin keep you from the guy who could turn out to be the man of your dreams. -- Posted by JasonGuy at 8:26 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 Quote: from stl man at 8:11 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 love is colorblind could not of said it better. -- Posted by kidd rune at 8:27 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 THE BIBLE IS RACIST, IT TALKES AGAINST RACE MIXING That's not racism... There's nothing wrong with interracial dating. It matters what you think is wrong. -- Posted by jakelong at 1:53 am on Nov. 16, 2008 I know many people believe that two people of different races should not be together I don't know about that. I got no problem with that! Most ppl I know got no problem with it either. -- Posted by jakelong at 2:00 am on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:09 pm on Nov. 15, 2008 I don't understand the difference between white and black, or white and mexican, or any race compared to any other race... That's cool. Nothing wrong with that. I just don't know what to do... Do what you feel is right and go with what your heart says. Is it wrong of me to have feelings for him as more than a friend just because of his skin? Nope nothing wrong at all. Why would God put him in my life and allow me to have feelings for him if I wasn't supposed to..?! God loves all ppl of all races. Remember "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus." God only cares that you two really love each other. I'm so confused and I feel completely alone. You can PM me if you wish -- Posted by kidd rune at 8:53 am on Nov. 16, 2008 God loves all ppl of all races. Remember "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free man, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus." God only cares that you two really love each other. Lol, Jake is a Christian. -- Posted by jakelong at 3:17 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Its obvious KR is not -- Posted by kidd rune at 3:32 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from jakelong at 6:17 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Its obvious KR is not Well of course. I don't believe in God creating humans himself and all that - but I do believe that a higher being could exist - yet he let the Earth itself evolve and create the species' it contains naturally. -- Posted by jakelong at 3:36 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Chris tian - adjective 1. of, pertaining to, or derived from Jesus Christ or His teachings: a Christian faith.   2. of, pertaining to, believing in, or belonging to the religion based on the teachings of Jesus Christ: Spain is a Christian country.   3. of or pertaining to Christians: many Christian deaths in the Crusades.   4. exhibiting a spirit proper to a follower of Jesus Christ; Christlike: She displayed true Christian charity.   5. decent; respectable: They gave him a good Christian burial.   6. human; not brutal; humane: Such behavior isn't Christian.   yep you're not of the above... -- Posted by kidd rune at 3:38 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 yep you're not of the above... Well of course. Silly Jakelong. But, then again, every culture has different ideas of who Christ was. -- Posted by jakelong at 4:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Silly rabbit trying to derail the topic again... -- Posted by kidd rune at 4:16 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Silly rabbit trying to derail the topic again... You didn't have to reply to my Christian post. One or two posts off topic, then the thread going back on topic, is different than five or so turning into a debate - as it sometimes does. -- Posted by meesh at 5:36 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 I really wished you wouldve posted an IM name or something so we could talk about it. I dont know anyone right now that is in the same boat as me and you. I have the same problem with my family but the thing is ive been with my black boyfriend for a very long time and they dont know it. Its a struggle I have to deal with everyday because I know if I where to tell my mother or THAT side of my family I will be hated or even worse hurt.   Ive already met his family and it seems to be getting worse and worse everyday we are together and my family does not know. I dont know what to do.