-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:00 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 and go to the doctor, the reason i am Anon, i will now explain.. btw, i'm only 13...so yeah... if that has any factor to this topic my parents are the greatest couple...so they do tend to get into heated arguments, but this one i am siding with my father.... MY mother never had a great life she lived in rural alabama and was very poor...At 10, she was cooking for a family of 7, and her mom Drank WAY too much and always beat the shit out of her, because she was the only one that would put up with it....then she was raped by her baby sitter, sad i know but know she has gotten into the drinking habit and she has been drinking since she was about 25, ( i promise never to have more than one drink at a party)HEr first husband who cheated on her and is the father of my sister died in a car wreck. she's now 50 and is going through menopause...because of the raging hormones she seriously looks bi polar, 1 minutes she all happy and cheery and the next she screaming at my dad about how He ruined her life. she gets these nasty sores and mess on her legs, and they take like 2 weeks to heal, she's got a bum knee, and she's never really been "happy" always "OK" but never happy, she goes into deep depression, and because of that we get into fights too, my mom has never been popular and is usually an "outsider" of a group...and so she doesn't have alot of friends, and all these fights make me feel so bad that i'm pushing her away...I've gotten used to it all...but it's still a pain in the ass. I wish she just go to the fucking doctor and get some damn menopause pills, and go to a fucking counselor, for her rehab... FUCK!!! I want my mom back.   -- Posted by zamrambo at 3:02 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 That really sucks.  Make sure she knows how you feel... -- Posted by AcidSilence at 3:03 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 I'm sorry... Maybe try and have a sit down talk with her about it. Basically everything you just told us, tell her. Your sick of her acting Bi-Polar and its really hard on you, and you want her to be healthy. And just as her Mom's drinking hurt her, Her's is hurting you. -- Posted by dancetillyadrop at 3:04 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from AcidSilence at 3:03 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 I'm sorry... Maybe try and have a sit down talk with her about it. Basically everything you just told us, tell her. Your sick of her acting Bi-Polar and its really hard on you, and you want her to be healthy. And just as her Mom's drinking hurt her, Her's is hurting you. ^thats what I was going to say. -- Posted by XxcrimsonxtwilightxX at 3:06 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 sit her down, just you n her, and talk 2 her about it. i know what ur thinking, thats not gonna help itll just start another fight.and then shell be mad at you. the thing is, you have 2 fight for what u want and what you know is best, wait for a good day for you and just sit her down. make sure shes sober also. dont want her 2 do something she may regret. if you wanna talk more message me. love alwayz, morgan-k -- Posted by lorenextdoor at 3:14 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 I never know how to handle parents - just leave them alone I guess.  Eventually they may come to their senses and act like adults.