-- Posted by IMPALA at 5:04 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 i don't want her in my life? i've been friensd with a girl for just over two years.. and she likes to make light of the fact that my father killed himself when she is upset with me, simply to 'Get back' at me and it makes me want to do horrible things to myself whenever she says this to me, and she knows this.. and keeps saying it whenever we fight. so i cut her out of my life earlier this week. i apologized the other night about things i said to her, because the night we got in the fight.. apparently the next day her uncle passed and she looked to me for support, i was nowhere to be found because i was still pissed and i told her that no matter how bad the problem, if she contacted me, i'd be a dick. she said 'okay! sure thing' like she didnt believe me. she used the 'i'm glad your dad killed himself' line and she just texts me a little bit ago 'i need a friend' and i basically shrugged it off and said too bad. so she tries getting my pity by saying she's going to off herself. so i told her if she wants to, then it shows how weak she is. am i in the right? this shit is annoying me. i have my own fucking basket of problems going on, i don't need her shit! -- Posted by Vbby at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 fuck that bitch -- Posted by snowcone200 at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 sounds like me and my ex. :( minus the dead relatives and all. -- Posted by SkeeterHearts at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 This is like the song 'Peices' by Rascal Flatts. Tell her to fuck off. Again. -- Posted by kristina16 at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 I dont get the dad part? Wow :( -- Posted by CoolGirlChrissi at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 you helped her do it -- Posted by EmilyTheStrange at 5:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 she sounds like a bitch. I think you're right. -- Posted by peptobismol9 at 5:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Dick slap her. I didnt even read it. I will in a second. Just remember. Dick slap. -- Posted by snowcone200 at 5:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 You guys sound like a married couple or bf and gf who fight a lot :P -- Posted by IMPALA at 5:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from snowcone200 at 5:05 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 sounds like me and my ex. :( minus the dead relatives and all. she isn't my ex. i could never date her.. as time progresses, i find out how much more in depth her problems are. she is a great girl, but she takes all ehr problems out on the people around her. i do too sometimes but she is constantly sad and never happy. i will admit, lately in the past month, i've been depressed every day.. up until mid last week, i've been working on being happy alone without my most recent ex.. which i might get back with. said girl from the first post.. called my ex a fat stupid bitch and talked all this MAD shit on her. i was pretty much done when that happened.. but then she pulled the 'your father' card -- Posted by dedra lover00 at 5:07 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 i think your in the righttt. she shouldnt talk to u about yourr dad. oh & btw, im sorry about your fatherr -- Posted by peptobismol9 at 5:10 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Ok. Let me be serious here though. Ive been through this twice. And the answer is. Block her. Block her email, phone, Dont aswer the door for her. Tell her leave you alone. If she acts like that there will not be anything good ahead for you. Ive been hurt alot. Dont let it happen. Get out before its to late. Just trust me, If you wait to long, It will destroy you to leave. Get freinds to help you and post if you need more help. Sorry about your father by the way. -- Posted by IMPALA at 5:10 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 thanks , its tough -- Posted by riddick09 at 5:14 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 yo sry bout ur old man and tell her to get lost or youll get feral(RABID) on heroh fyi give her a razor blade for a gift she will get the message -- Posted by Conniie at 5:15 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 wow she really sounds like a bitch, and if she has the guts to say that knowing that it hurts you then honestly fuck her,cuz that is so rude of her, she is not a real friend, i think you should just get her out of your life -- Posted by concon at 5:17 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 ur right -- Posted by IMPALA at 5:20 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Quote: from peptobismol9 at 5:10 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 Ok. Let me be serious here though. Ive been through this twice. And the answer is. Block her. Block her email, phone, Dont aswer the door for her. Tell her leave you alone. If she acts like that there will not be anything good ahead for you. Ive been hurt alot. Dont let it happen. Get out before its to late. Just trust me, If you wait to long, It will destroy you to leave. Get freinds to help you and post if you need more help. Sorry about your father by the way. its fine. she lives 300mi. away, i've never met her.. but we're a big part of each other's lives nonetheless. i was actually gonna drive down to her house and surprise her this summer but that is scrapped now. -- Posted by IMPALA at 10:18 pm on Nov. 16, 2008 bump! since her thread is up!