-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:35 am on Nov. 17, 2008 so i talked to this guy since i was 15 (in april of 07)...met him on myspace and then we started talking on the phone for the following four months ...then we met up at a baile...(he lived in Green Bay which is only 3 hrs. away)...then he asked me out 2 months after that (i was 16, he had just turned 20) so then we go out for 4 months and we slept together...lost my virginity to him...(not my first time doing anything sexual but i went all the way with him, and no he wasn't one of my first bfs...had plenty before him so i kinda knew this was gonna happen...)...mom caught me getting off one of our late calls (around 3 in the morning cause that's the only time we were both available)...and i had no way of telling him cause he hardly checks his myspace anymore....so i didn't hear from him or talk to him for months...i turned 17 and then summer came and went and nothing...so i go to a quince and i see him there and i know he saw me...but i didn't get a "hi...good that you're alive" or anything and he had plenty of chances to do so...i don't know if it was a misunderstanding (cause i didn't talk to him either) or if it was a hit it and quit it...what do you guys think?...i really need to know cause i can't let my first just go like that... -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:36 am on Nov. 17, 2008 "then we go out for 4 months and we slept together..." He lost all respect and any potential to actually develop any type of deep love for you once you gave it up easy. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:38 am on Nov. 17, 2008 it was a mutual thing...he was a virgin also...i guess i overestimated his ability to develop a deep emotional connection at that point... -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:40 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:38 am on Nov. 17, 2008 it was a mutual thing...he was a virgin also...i guess i overestimated his ability to develop a deep emotional connection at that point... yes a lot of guys are like that. Though you would expect a older guy to be mature and able to be able to develop true love for a girl. But I don't know. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:45 am on Nov. 17, 2008 i always thought older meant mature and i should've known otherwise (due to my previous experiences with older guys)... i guess i really was blind sighted by love...and yes it was love, at least for me it was... -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:47 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:45 am on Nov. 17, 2008 i always thought older meant mature and i should've known otherwise (due to my previous experiences with older guys)... i guess i really was blind sighted by love...and yes it was love, at least for me it was... Not all guys the same :P Sometimes you can even find a young guy who actually falls for you truly. You never know that's why relationship is big business you know eharmony and dating sites and those phone chat lines lol -- Posted by crystal 81308 at 8:49 am on Nov. 17, 2008 oh. sucks. just talk to him. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:51 am on Nov. 17, 2008 can't, his old cell got disconnected and he won't even read the couple of messages i sent him.... -- Posted by snowcone200 at 8:52 am on Nov. 17, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:51 am on Nov. 17, 2008 can't, his old cell got disconnected and he won't even read the couple of messages i sent him.... lol, don't even bother.