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-- Posted by well well well at 2:25 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

her family is perfect. dad mom two daughters.

mine's dad mom two daughters, too. except my dad's in jail for domestic violence and my mom's an alcoholic and my sister hates me.

she's beautiful, skinny, bright blue eyes, guys love her.

i'm...too tall (5'8''), too fat (129) and no guys like me. none. with the exception of my boyfriend...who ....eh. not getting into that.

she can handle things. she doesn't need people.

i need people. i'm terrible like that. i need constant reassurance that people dont hate me. i'm unhealthily insecure.


and im so jealous.
im so jealous of her it hurts.


-- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 2:26 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

Hey, sweetheart, guess what? You're pretty too. And no, I'm not lying to make you feel better, I'm an honest person. Don't be jealous. You've got things going for you too, obviously.


-- Posted by sosupkthnx at 2:27 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

I know how it feels :( But I dont hate you!!! You just need new things and changes.


-- Posted by juliaa at 2:27 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

dont compare yourself to others. learn to love who you are and where you are at. a love for yourself gives you a great personaliy and gives you a light that shines :)


-- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 2:27 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

I'm 129 and I'm fucking skinny...you have PROBLEMS.


-- Posted by ineedhelp101 at 2:27 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

wow...just one of those things? wow... thats all i can say...wow...

I have a friend who things shes in the similar sitch...expect for that the 'friend' is actually her sister....

the universe plays shitty tricks on us sometimes...


-- Posted by Doghouse at 2:29 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

-_- Bitch, cut yo hair short. Start jogging. Start painting?


-- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 2:29 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

OH!!!

Troll...lulz...fell for it >->


-- Posted by Written in Love at 2:30 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

1) You have things going for you.
2) If you are that hurt, you need to talk to your friend, or somebody.
3) I went through the same thing last year with my friend. You're not alone.
4) There's always people out there who care.

I'm a good listener. Private message me if you want.


-- Posted by shawtybaby00 at 2:31 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

..DNT HAVE SUCH A LOW SELF ESTEEM..THNK BOUT THA GUD THNGS BOUT YOURSELF :)


-- Posted by saradotcom at 2:31 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

Hey, listen, you're not fat, you're not too tall.  And 5'8" is a great height.  I'm 5'5" and I constantly feel short.  And 129?  Darlin', of all the weights to be worried about, that's not one of them.  I weigh maybe 127, and I'm shorter than you.  For you, that's about average weight if not below average a bit.


-- Posted by Lightning Strikes at 2:32 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

Your not fat, im like bigger than that.
And i would kill to be 5ft8.


-- Posted by blueelectricguitar at 2:33 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

If that's you in your image basket. How the feck are you fat?


-- Posted by mslibero at 2:43 pm on Nov. 17, 2008

since when was 129 Lbs fat?...?
anyone else agree?...


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