-- Posted by Zoom66 at 7:59 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 Ladies and guys i need ideas ... for a "simple" first date ... im not exactly pro at this sort of stuff so any advise would be well appretciated -- Posted by return2me at 8:01 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 dinner and a movie is popular. but dinner then watching stars on a blanket it different and romantic. yaknow, something like that. -- Posted by TBMP at 8:01 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 somethin she likes doing does she like movies? music? vidoe games? theater? something she'll enjoy. thats the most important -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 8:01 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 TALK...have a calm, slow, warming voice.  Talk about this and that...things that make sense and connect.  Compliment her and her ideals/ideas.  Smile and make eye contact. Success ensues. -- Posted by Vordhosbn at 8:03 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 really depends how well you know her. if you dont know her that well, coffee or lunch can be a good way to break the ice and have a good conversation. there's no need to be particularly 'creative' with a first date in my opinion - if it was me in her place i'd just want to know that you were interested, and to get to know you a little better.