-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:10 am on Nov. 18, 2008 I have always been a little overweight and it hasnt got any better over the years.I have tried so many things and I really hate who I am and its why I cut myself, now my friends want to talk to me about it(the weight gain).I feel it is none of their business what do you think? -- Posted by SexxxayParty at 10:11 am on Nov. 18, 2008 turn anorexic thats what i did -- Posted by Chiefette at 10:11 am on Nov. 18, 2008 They are just trying to be friends, and be there for you.  If you aren't careful, you will lose them.  With an attitude like that, you won't find new ones easily. -- Posted by FuzzyBearJr at 10:12 am on Nov. 18, 2008 they could just be trying to help you. and they figure if they can help you lose wieght they figure it might get you to stop cutting your self and feel better about your self ? -- Posted by The Wolfhound at 10:12 am on Nov. 18, 2008 i think they should talk to you about cutting... A LOT! -- Posted by RIMHfire at 10:13 am on Nov. 18, 2008 if you won't talk to them about it, it'll only make your situation worse. -- Posted by gothjuggalo at 10:14 am on Nov. 18, 2008 yea its your problem but the cuting thing should stop its not good and if they really cared about you then they would talk to you about that not your weight