-- Posted by bmw1992 at 11:30 am on Nov. 18, 2008 How can i stop being so scared to talk to the girl i am mad about in person(we talk on IM, i still find it hard to initiate the conversation), i want to, but i can't(i am very shy), i worry about things like, what will her friends say, what if i say something wrong, all these little things that build up and stop me, any advice on how to stop being scared and worried about every little thing? thanks in advance :) -- Posted by McMuffin at 11:32 am on Nov. 18, 2008 think about what you're missing out on. if you let this chance go by, you might regret it later. better to humiliate yourself for a brief period than to always wonder, right? -- Posted by GoodFairy13 at 11:32 am on Nov. 18, 2008 Haha. I'm in this exact position and so if He. It'd be cute if it weren't so lame. -- Posted by Killer Tofu at 11:36 am on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't let your fears get the best of you. Think of what you're missing out on.