-- Posted by phoenix7356 at 12:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 okay, so, i have this ex who is a little wild and still likes me, and i dont really like her anymore. first problem is sometimes i really want to be with her but i think its just me being horny. second, i met this girl at camp this summer and she gorgeous not only on the outside but on the inside she is the most amazing person ive ever met. it feels like i love her, but i only see her 1 week a year for the past 5 years, and i know that i could never know if i love someone from that. ps, she lives in ny and i live in nc. third, i have a good friend who is friends with my ex, and sometimes i feel like i like hera little. fourth and final relationship problem (i have many others) is that there is another girl im gettng to be better friends with who i kinda have a crush on and shes cool and fun and nice, and all those things i like in a girl, but i just dont know if my ex could even handle me being in a relationship. just to cap it off, i would never get back together with my ex or get together with our mutual friend, its just i get weird feelings sometimes.  the one in ny, god, its surreal how perfect she is, and the new friend of mine i think i would enjoy going out with. -- Posted by xblackpoisonx at 12:18 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 get her number -- Posted by Dannyjoe1000 at 12:18 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 So u have 4 girls on the go. Poor you Stop and think about how lucky u really are -- Posted by phoenix7356 at 12:20 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 no, the ex is crazy, so is the mutual friend. the girl in ny probably wont have me, and the new friend i would feel bad dating because i would leave anyone at any moment for the girl from ny. -- Posted by Dannyjoe1000 at 12:20 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 then suck my blade....GWA! -- Posted by liveone555 at 12:22 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 How about you drop all 4 and find someone else.... -- Posted by phoenix7356 at 12:22 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 um, how does that solve anything? -- Posted by sararogers at 12:23 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 well i think if the one in ny is the one you truly like then dont waste your time with other girls and wait for the one you want the most -- Posted by phoenix7356 at 12:25 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 but, i cant be with her, and long term relationships dont really work, and i just feel like its not meant to happen because of circumstance, but i want it to so bad.