-- Posted by leoneo at 1:14 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 I just told my girlfriend that I plan to join the Navy when I get out of college. I don't think I have ever seen anyone cry like that.. Is there anything I can do to make her happier? -- Posted by neverjeeps at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't join the navy. -- Posted by DirtyPeanut at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Tell her you're not? -- Posted by Suicidebooth at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 dont join the navy -- Posted by Light Assassin at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from neverjeeps at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't join the navy. -- Posted by cienna at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 give her anal? always cheers me up xxx -- Posted by UltimaTaz at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Show her the beautiful Scar -- Posted by zoeedee at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 dont join the navy -- Posted by Light Assassin at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from cienna at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 give her anal? always cheers me up xxx -- Posted by SimbaGrrl at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from neverjeeps at 9:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't join the navy. Pretty much... Or tell her how important it is to you... -- Posted by Rodiggidy at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 dude don't listen to these pricks do what you want, just be sure to make her feel loved while you can -- Posted by maceyface at 1:16 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from neverjeeps at 1:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Don't join the navy. it is a novel idea if you're gonna be away for a long time, break up with her for her sake. -- Posted by babel at 1:17 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 do her. -- Posted by okumsup at 1:19 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 don't listen to them, you have to do what you want, she'll have to get over it.. it's your life. -- Posted by SavannahNoel at 1:21 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do. -- Posted by rawr41507 at 1:26 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Just explain it to her. She should understand, she may not like it, but it's not her choice, it's yours. -- Posted by Chocolate Thunda at 1:27 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 My mom cried like a baby when my brother told her. Eventually, if she loves you enough she'll understand why you did it. She wont like it, but she'll support you. -- Posted by Lulamae at 1:28 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from SavannahNoel at 10:21 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do. Depends...sometimes you have to make compromises in a relationship? -- Posted by lonelyone at 1:34 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Why? -- Posted by PrintingFreak at 1:36 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 i know what would cheer her up, join the Army... jk I was in a similar predicament . you could tell her that your doing it to better your self, as well as open up better options for your self down the road and give back to your country and once she see's (in a few weeks or so) how happy it makes you she will be happy too. PS GOOD LUCK -- Posted by Lulamae at 1:36 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 THOSE were the hardest 15 minutes of your life? Whoa, just wait till real life gets started... -- Posted by bornonmars75 at 1:37 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 chocolate -- Posted by Rodiggidy at 1:39 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from Lulamae at 4:28 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from SavannahNoel at 10:21 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do. Depends...sometimes you have to make compromises in a relationship? and the compromise is that she will deal with whatever feelings she might have so he can continue his career -- Posted by losersmonkey at 1:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 not go??? -- Posted by lizzy4312 at 1:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 try to explain to her and talk more about your feelings. -- Posted by kaylar28 at 4:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 follow your heart not your head she cant control your life though, but if its going to ruin your relationship and you want it to go somewhere with her then sometimes you need to make sacrifices( such as not joining) but if its something you truely want to do..and your willing to risk a relationship on it..then u gotta do it but theres no way really to make her happy, unless you dont go.