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-- Posted by camcool21 at 4:19 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
Background: 2 High School seniors, dated for 8 months. Never went further than 2nd base. Cared about each other very much. Never any type of arguments or disagreements. Reason She Dumped Me: We had a talk about where we stand on sex. She said she strictly believes sex can only be enjoyed between a married couple. I said that sex can be enjoyed between 2 mature and responsible adults using discretion. She freaks out, and says that she feels that she now owes me sex. I told her that this isn't true, and I would wait for an eternity until she was ready for sex. Dumps me as a result. Note, she never freaked out about anything, ever in the 8 months during the relationship until this. Time: Happened yesterday afterschool. I moped all day today, and was seen clearly by all as upset and distraught. Action Up To This Point: A letter was given to her today after school, that told her to think about the decision she has made. I let her know that I think she acted on a whim, and will probably regret it. I informed her that I am interested in continuing our freshly ended relationship. So...anyone wanna help me get the girl back? I'm almost positive she's made a mistake. She reacted to an emotional response caused by her thinking that her virginity is threatened (for what reason I know not, I was nothing but supportive of her beliefs and values). Tomorrow I plan on being being super happy (even if it's only an act).
-- Posted by camcool21 at 4:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
Nothing? Man I must really suck at life.
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