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-- Posted by Dazzles at 5:10 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Anyone ever had someone ask them out, over text or note, or myspace or somthing that you thought was serious, and either if you say yes or no, you find out it really wasnt that person you were talking to, or they were just asking to see your reaction??

ugh that pisses me off...
Its happened SO many times,
and i dont think i was ever gonna say yes, but it catches you off gaurd, and gives you mixed feelings bout that person.


It happened tonight with this guy I have been seriously thinking about ALOT, and talking about hooking up with.
And he shows alot of attraction to me, and hes hott  but idk if i would date him for various reasons.
But all year, a ton of people have been saying were an item, and idk why. But it figues someone would do that
I just texted back, saying "If your being serious, call me"

Then texted some other guys and figured out their all at Basketball practice. Great


-- Posted by TKDgoneveggie at 5:11 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

ugh i hate that!!!
it's so obnoxious and creates and awkward situation


-- Posted by 420trendz at 5:11 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

I didn't get that but I did that to someone once
but i really did like them. i was just too shy at that time


-- Posted by RoseBeautyMagical416 at 5:12 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

never happend to me
hopefully it won't


-- Posted by Dazzles at 5:13 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Quote: from Trendsetta at 5:11 pm on Nov. 18, 2008


I didn't get that but I did that to someone once
but i really did like them. i was just too shy at that time

Dont ever do that, nothing pisses a girl off more than that.

Because it makes them sooo confused either way


-- Posted by k14nk at 5:14 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Thats horrible. I'd be so sad if that happend :[


-- Posted by Dazzles at 5:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Quote: from k14nk at 5:14 pm on Nov. 18, 2008


Thats horrible. I'd be so sad if that happend :[

Yeah, its sad when your actully thinking about saying yes, and you relize its fake.


-- Posted by LucidAssassin at 5:15 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

i dont get asked out...


-- Posted by 420trendz at 5:17 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Quote: from Dazzles at 8:13 pm on Nov. 18, 2008


Quote: from Trendsetta at 5:11 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

I didn't get that but I did that to someone once  
 but i really did like them. i was just too shy at that time

Dont ever do that, nothing pisses a girl off more than that.

Because it makes them sooo confused either way


yea i know
this was when i was in middle school
lol


-- Posted by HaouLance99 at 5:18 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

I was actually wondering if I should text this girl I'm into about going out sometime, but since I can't tell whether or not she likes me, I've held back on it. She'll be giggling a bit when we're doing group classwork, but after class is over, she just leaves without talking to me. And I think she knows I like her, but...meh, I'm too confused about all this. XD


-- Posted by Dazzles at 5:22 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

Quote: from HaouLance99 at 5:18 pm on Nov. 18, 2008


I was actually wondering if I should text this girl I'm into about going out sometime, but since I can't tell whether or not she likes me, I've held back on it. She'll be giggling a bit when we're doing group classwork, but after class is over, she just leaves without talking to me. And I think she knows I like her, but...meh, I'm too confused about all this. XD

Seriously, isntead of being rediculous, and straight up asking "will you go out with me?"
Be her friend, ask for her number, call her, text her, talk to her, get to know her, and then once that al feels good tell her you like her and ask her what she thinks about having a relationship with you.
Seriously, that takes all the edge, and nervousness away.


-- Posted by XsmilygirlX at 5:22 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

People do that to me at school everyday.  I always say no.


-- Posted by HaouLance99 at 5:33 pm on Nov. 18, 2008

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