-- Posted by Anonymous at 6:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 my girl frien has Anorexia and it kills me so much and i want to help her i just dont know how to do it i need your guys help i need it sooooooooo bad guys -- Posted by alastrxxna at 6:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Tell her she is beautiful, with curves... or whatever -- Posted by bornonmars75 at 6:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 tell her parents and get her some medical treatment -- Posted by lightskaylaction at 6:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 make a huge nice dinner for her and tell her that you worked really hard on it and made it especially for her -- Posted by LucidAssassin at 6:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 tell her what it does and try to get her to stop and support her through trying to stop. it might seem prying, but you might want to make sure that shes actually not just getting around your work. also, you may want to try a counselor or something because anorexia turns into a sort of psychological disorder as well as an eating disorder -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 she dont want people to know -- Posted by rokuAA at 6:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Short of tranqulizers and feeding tubes: TALK TO HER. You are probably one of the top people she will listen to. Try to break through to her. -- Posted by aleiram51 at 6:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 if she actually anorexic she needs to get to a professional. you can't help her other than getting her to a doctor telling her she is perfect and trying to make her eat won't do it. if she really is anorexic, do her a favor and call a pro.   -- Posted by jacowy at 6:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 do a lot of reading, right now, on the internet from good sources. I've learned a ton about anorexia from my psychology AP class, and trust me, it's deeper than you may think. She is obsessive about food, and probably has a mild OCD type of thing, and she focuses it on food. You can help more if you know what she's going through, so learn about it. -- Posted by Trendz at 6:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 is she really anorexic or she just doesn't eat? -- Posted by Ramellan at 6:46 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from alastrxxna at 6:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Tell her she is beautiful, with curves... or whatever that wont work. get her ass to a doctor. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:50 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 she dont want to its so hard i just cant do this alone -- Posted by LucidAssassin at 6:56 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 6:50 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 she dont want to its so hard i just cant do this alone then get help from someone else -- Posted by liveone555 at 7:00 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Make her watch intervention.....maybe thatll kick it into her Brian...does she want kids? Tell her she will never have kids if she keeps it up... Does she want nice hair? Tell her she won't have it if she keeps it up? Does she want to live? Tell he she won't unless she keeps it up... Only in nicer ways... -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:03 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 I'm talking to her on the phone right now tring to get her to find help if people wasn't fucking dicks then girls and guys wouldn't have this fucking problem -- Posted by W o n d e r l a n d at 1:14 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from bornonmars75 at 1:44 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 tell her parents and get her some medical treatment My boyfrined tells me that every day... It makes it worse -- Posted by Mourningseptmbr at 6:37 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should tell her that you are concerned about her, and that you are not willing to lose her and youre afraid that this is something that has consumed her to an unhealthy state. Tell her that you support her and you want to help her. Dont threaten her but tell her that your concern is making you believe that she might need to talk to someone. -- Posted by Catacomb at 1:47 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 the best thing to do is to entice her with meals -- Posted by allenpane at 9:20 pm on Dec. 30, 2008 try this site you will get lot of information www.eating-disorder.com/