-- Posted by filthh at 8:41 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 i just really need to vent about this. so the other night i was chillin with my boyfriend at my house. and i guess he was really bored so i tried to think of something to do. couldn't really think of anything so he calls me boring. and he was serious. so i was like "whatever i guess" i know i'm not a boring person. but the other night i got really drunk and apparently kinda loud. so i tried my best to quiet down cuz everyone was sleeping in the house. so i started whisper-talking. and then he straight up yelled at me and called me annoying. like...apparently i was getting on his nerves or something. which i found to be kinda rude. a "hey be quiet everyone is sleeping" would be sufficient. and he's like, pretty much been ignoring my calls all day and it's really getting to me. i'm like, freaking in love with this kid and i don't wanna lose him. he's never been as rude as he has been lately to me in all the 8 months we've been dating. i just don't know what to think. -- Posted by alastrxxna at 8:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Just take a hint and forget about him, He's trying to forget about you, it seems. -- Posted by nearlyinsane at 8:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Wow sounds like Male PMS. Maybe he's stressed out about something? I sense irritiability. -- Posted by DopeSickGirl at 8:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) -- Posted by filthh at 8:47 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from DopeSickGirl at 9:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) dude your signature made my day. bahaha. -- Posted by hottie15 at 8:56 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Well u guys need to meet up and talk bout it with out one of u yelling open up and talk and tell him how u feel and y didn't u guys play some games but if u need to talk bout it message me k -- Posted by foreveralone at 9:20 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from DopeSickGirl at 8:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 oh wow. okay heres what you do. be busy when he calls you. it sounds dumb but hear me out. absence makes the heart grow fonder. kinda blow him off for a couple weeks. it works i swear, hell be nice to you again. or you can just face the music now and tell him to fuck himself. then you can move on :) this is precisely the kind of thing that gets shit all fucked up...he clearly is trying to create a situation that is uncomfortable because he's lost interest...i would make very certain you really like this guy because it's going to take sitting down and talking honestly with him...don't pull any "i'm busy" bullshit, that will just give him more a reason and fuel his argument thereby allowing him to feel good about breaking it off. Sadly, it sounds like curtains for the relationship unless you're willing to address any underlying problems (ps. no one just arbitrarily becomes boring, that could be a clue he's been using you for his own satisfaction) -- Posted by warrior chick at 9:45 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 just take it easy, maybe he's just got stuff going on. just give it time and he'll come around -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 10:17 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 You both seem obnoxious... Um, wow I really cannot think of one possible way to fix that, you guys will just have to deal with each other.