-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:50 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 How can you date a guy for like half a year. Break up with him, give up on being with him after a year. Then say "You just" friends and only can be friends. Damn why must you be confusing. What are you thinking when you say you see me as just a friend after all the sexual things we done. -- Posted by Style Out at 8:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 How big is your penis? -- Posted by austin s23 at 8:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 aw that sucks -- Posted by spartan09 at 8:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Because they decided they didn't want all the sexual things. Many people in general don't just date for sex. I don't, for one. She might have actually wanted to be friends, and you pushed your sexual agenda upon her, and she didn't want it. Try just being her friend first. -- Posted by Meeko at 8:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 survival of the fittest -- Posted by DopeSickGirl at 8:52 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 umm i guess were just like that? -- Posted by alastrxxna at 8:53 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Girls are weird. -- Posted by CeeCee at 8:54 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 sex does not equal love. love does not equal sex. -- Posted by hottie15 at 8:58 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 after u date u can never go back to being just friends -- Posted by XxKristinxX at 8:59 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 not all girls are the same. Maybe she didnt wanna be with you...or maybe she just got tired of the relationship......hmm...there could be many things -- Posted by foreveralone at 9:04 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from spartan09 at 8:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Because they decided they didn't want all the sexual things. Many people in general don't just date for sex. I don't, for one. She might have actually wanted to be friends, and you pushed your sexual agenda upon her, and she didn't want it. Try just being her friend first. this is exactly the kind of horseshit women perpetuate...if you try being friends first, without pushing a sexual agenda then you become friends and she uses the excuse "oh we can't take our relationship further, it would ruin the friendship"...essentially, women will pick and choose how they want to spin something...and its not without good cause, its usually because they don't want to hurt the guy's feelings but honestly it'd be easier if we all just communicated honestly with one another...like instead of "lets just be friends now" try "i'm no longer sexually attracted to you" -- Posted by andymac1 at 9:33 pm on Nov. 18, 2008  Maturity maybe? -- Posted by warrior chick at 9:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 i don't know, but i totally understand where u r coming from. i think that guys should come with instruction manuals -- Posted by foreveralone at 9:54 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from warrior chick at 9:43 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 i don't know, but i totally understand where u r coming from. i think that guys should come with instruction manuals if left to our own preferences guys would not be complicated at all...in fact a lot of us still dont/cant play the games that force women to "read" men or pick up on "signals"...if it were up to us, a guy would walk up to a girl, say "hey you're attractive, do you have any interest in getting to know me?" and the affirmative answer would then lead to a conversation while an answer in the negative would lead to the guy moving on. And yes, a simple no might hurt a guys immediate feelings, but in the long run what good is it to force him to try to impress you. God gave us the power to communicate openly without ridiculous displays and rituals...we are not birds presenting for our mates to attract them. -- Posted by LoveKay at 10:05 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 It's easy. I dumped my boyfriend of three years, and on his birthday at that. He deserved it, and deserved so much fucking more. I lost all of my feelings for him and I became repulsed by his entire presense. I hated him. So I dumped him. Once you develop feelings for somebody, there is never a guarantee those feelings will last. One or the other always strays, and that's how relationships end (unless you're lucky and it's mutual). How else do you think everybody breaks up? One person loses some emotion, perhaps even cheats, or perhaps treats the other like crap because they no longer care, or they just want to get away all of a sudden. It happens all the time. -- Posted by Aimforthehead at 10:07 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Seriously, way back when I had a girlfriend I did stuff with and she was over it in 3 days lol. Fine with it now but I was mind boggled back then.