-- Posted by prettymuch at 9:39 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 So ive been seeing this girl, shes really into me im sure, we kiss, we make out, drink together, smoke weed, its great, and i think i may really like her, like want to be with her after schools over, but now heres the problem.  Today we were hanging out, making out, the usual, but then we end up having sex, after she tells me, "I didnt want to have sex early, because it makes me not want to have a relationship" i cant talk to her right now because shes with her alcoholic dad, can anyone help me to get things straight? -- Posted by hottie15 at 9:40 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 ummm no not really im sorry -- Posted by sub800 at 9:40 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 invent a time machine and stop yourself from having sex -- Posted by theboxman at 9:40 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 What she did not want to have sex before 6AM? -- Posted by DopeSickGirl at 9:41 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 wow, thats shitty. umm i would just straight up ask her about it, just pretend everything is buisness as usual, so she doesnt feel awkward. -- Posted by warrior chick at 9:41 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 tell a friend that can talk to her and that you trust to talk to her, -- Posted by The Wolfhound at 9:44 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 I love people who smoke illegal drugs with their girls and then blame others for being alcoholic... Hmeh. Just wait and get her alone n talk to her. FYI, if u dunt wanna get inot situations like those, don't have sex w/ girls who you are almost sure you might like, k? My advice... -- Posted by prettymuch at 9:48 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 I live in a state where posession has been decriminalized and its grown up to 4 plants legally in your own home, please dont tell me that weed is worse than alcohol, because 30,000 people die from alcohol a year and 0 die from marijuana. -- Posted by Acid World at 9:51 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Was I the only one that expected to be bel-aired? -- Posted by prettymuch at 10:04 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Bel-aired? -- Posted by LoveKay at 10:09 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 1. Weed is dumb. So therefore, you are dumb. 2. You should have more respect for her; that's why you shouldn't have slept with her early. It shows care if you wait. 3. She probably has the forbidden fruit syndrome, so once she has it, she don't want it. I guess just see how things go. I think you should just leave her alone--I mean, don't bring it up. If everything still runs smooth, then never talk about it again. If she wants to break up, she will tell you, and you will get your answer without pressuring her and making her feel obligated and/or bad for it. -- Posted by prettymuch at 10:17 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 Quote: from LoveKay at 10:09 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 1. Weed is dumb. So therefore, you are dumb. 2. You should have more respect for her; that's why you shouldn't have slept with her early. It shows care if you wait. 3. She probably has the forbidden fruit syndrome, so once she has it, she don't want it.   I guess just see how things go. I think you should just leave her alone--I mean, don't bring it up. If everything still runs smooth, then never talk about it again. If she wants to break up, she will tell you, and you will get your answer without pressuring her and making her feel obligated and/or bad for it. good advice at the end there, thats probably what ill end up doing, im sure when we see eachother tomorrow things will be blown over, weve been through alot actually so i dont think this will be a huge deal.