-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:19 am on Nov. 19, 2008 I'm on the pill and have been for  over a year, we don't use condoms but I don't think thats a big deal because of the pill. We both are clean from STDs but when we have sex he will stop with out cuming, and wont want to go anymore, like I will try to let him have a break for a few minutes and then start again but he doesn't want to. I feel bad that I'm the only one that has an orgasm from sex. I think maybe because he doesn't know that he can cum on me, I wouldn't let him cum in me. So maybe he just doesn't cum because he doesn't know where to. We've only had sex like 6 times and we haven't even been dating for a month. What do you think? I should probably talk to him about it. -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Say, "Cum on me!" -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Say, "Cum on me!" Like while we are going at it? -- Posted by JennyColada at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Most guys I've been with are pretty excited to find out that I'm open to them cumming on me, so that could very well be the reason. I, personally, have never had a guy choose to not cum when we're having sex, so I can't really give you advice based on experience, but it may make him feel a bit more at-ease knowing what he stands with you in regards to his orgasm. -- Posted by 9 Volt at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Whoa, thats a scary sign o.o I'm not talking health-wise, I'm talking relationship-wise -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Say, "Cum on me!" Like while we are going at it? Yeah. Just let him know he can nut on you or maybe in or around you. Just let him know. -- Posted by wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it. He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury. Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something. -- Posted by iceman89 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 get another bf -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from JennyColada at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Most guys I've been with are pretty excited to find out that I'm open to them cumming on me, so that could very well be the reason. I, personally, have never had a guy choose to not cum when we're having sex, so I can't really give you advice based on experience, but it may make him feel a bit more at-ease knowing what he stands with you in regards to his orgasm. Like I know I get pissed when I don't have an orgasm when I have sex, and he is always the one who initiates the sex, not me. -- Posted by Killtyronedead at 12:22 am on Nov. 19, 2008 I have that same problem. -- Posted by JennyColada at 12:22 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Say, "Cum on me!" Like while we are going at it? Yea, sure, why not. Sometimes in the heat of the moment is the best, most stress-free (I mean, who really wants to talk about where he should cum when you're having tea and toast?!) time to bring up new ideas. You can say it however you feel comfortable: "You make me feel so good! I'm going to cum all over you, and I want you to cum all over me!" "Do you want to put it on my stomach? I want you to!" Or the very straightforward "cum on me this time" is always handy. -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.   He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.   Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something. I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small. -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:25 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from JennyColada at 12:22 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Say, "Cum on me!"    Like while we are going at it? Yea, sure, why not. Sometimes in the heat of the moment is the best, most stress-free (I mean, who really wants to talk about where he should cum when you're having tea and toast?!) time to bring up new ideas. You can say it however you feel comfortable: "You make me feel so good! I'm going to cum all over you, and I want you to cum all over me!" "Do you want to put it on my stomach? I want you to!" Or the very straightforward "cum on me this time" is always handy. Like afterwards he was like "What are you thinking about" and I wanted to be like "Why don't you ever let yourself finish when we have sex?" But I was too chicken shit. -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.  He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.  Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.   I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small. He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough. -- Posted by somebody555 at 12:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008 just get dressed in a way to get him in the mood for sex but toss him off b4 hand if u want him to cum so badly -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.       He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.       Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.        I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small. He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough. Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill. But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it. -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 12:30 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.   He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.   Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.     I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.    He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough. Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill. But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it. Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you. -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:31 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from JennyColada at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Most guys I've been with are pretty excited to find out that I'm open to them cumming on me, so that could very well be the reason. I, personally, have never had a guy choose to not cum when we're having sex, so I can't really give you advice based on experience, but it may make him feel a bit more at-ease knowing what he stands with you in regards to his orgasm. if i was them, i'd be happy to blow a huge hot load on you. you're fucking hot! anon because i'm a pussy. -- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 12:33 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:30 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.           He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.           Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.                I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.     He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.    Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.    But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.     Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you. Well the other day when we were talking on AIM, he asked me if I had any fetishes and I told him, he didn't tell me if he had any, but he told me is was playing it safe because he didn't want to scare me away. So maybe he is shy about it, but I don't like it when my guy doesn't cum from having sex, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good job. -- Posted by lucky015 at 12:37 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Ask him, Before or as u get into it wouldnt be a bad idea, Ask him if he would like to and tell him that if he would like to then you would like him to do it... -- Posted by imakethetest66 at 12:37 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:33 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:30 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008 You should talk to him about it.   He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.   Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.     I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.     He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.   Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.   But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.      Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you. Well the other day when we were talking on AIM, he asked me if I had any fetishes and I told him, he didn't tell me if he had any, but he told me is was playing it safe because he didn't want to scare me away. So maybe he is shy about it, but I don't like it when my guy doesn't cum from having sex, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good job. Let him know that it bothers you and it's something you want. He's having sex with you, so it shouldn't break anything special. ha ha You know what I mean?  Seriously, you probably have heard this a lot of times, but communication is the key to a golden relationship. He's your man, so don't be scared to talk about certain things with him, and it would stop you from the many thoughts of what it could possibly be. -- Posted by Anonymous at 3:24 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Have him stick his dick in your ass to finish up and cum, no babies that way, and it's sexy ass hell to get ass fucked. -- Posted by Chiefette at 4:31 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Sounds like he really isn't comfortable of the idea of no condom.  If you are comfortable enough with him to be sleeping with him, you should be comfortable enough with him to talk about this.