-- Posted by hi sarah at 5:10 am on Nov. 19, 2008 and it wasn't that big, it just brought back a lot of traumatic memories when i've been in car accidents in the past. and you'd think after 5 or so years i would of gotten over them but i guess i really haven't. so now i'm sitting here and i can't stop crying from all these painfully damaging memories and i don't know what to do. today has been such a horrible day and i wish i had someone to talk to that could understand. + people are making things worse and i really just don't know what to do. is it normal that these memories are coming back? and that they are so terrifying? -- Posted by Porkie at 5:13 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Have you ever seen a psychologist/councilor about it? -- Posted by I am Xual at 5:14 am on Nov. 19, 2008 what happened in that? i mean how much damage? -- Posted by SexxxayParty at 5:14 am on Nov. 19, 2008 yeah its normal.....i was in a coma for 20 days and have a left sided brain injury from a car accident that happend in Jan. -- Posted by GoliathJustin at 5:15 am on Nov. 19, 2008 http://tinyurl.com/56x3wt    will help you feel better :) -- Posted by Lukerules12 at 5:16 am on Nov. 19, 2008 if you want you can pm me... i might be able to help... I was in a car accident once... bit i was a kid so i don't remember much... -- Posted by RoseBeautyMagical416 at 5:17 am on Nov. 19, 2008 My mom got hit by a driver who wasn't watching the lights.  She is still traumatized by it... I also have friends that have been through a lot of accidents as well. so yes it is perfectly normal and understandble to be still affected by these painful memories. I hate to say this cause I know everyone else will say this but if it has been 5 years you should really talk to a pro about it. Hope things work out for you -- Posted by I am Xual at 5:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008 Lw and this http://tinyurl.com/6f42e2 -- Posted by UndergroundKing at 5:35 am on Nov. 19, 2008 I've lost three people due to accidents, I know what you mean by tramatic memories.  They are very hard to deal with... What happened in your situation?  I don't know your past to help understand your reaction to accidents. -- Posted by glowinthedark at 5:46 am on Nov. 19, 2008 ily. i'm here to talk any time. it's hard to forget the past especially when the future relates to it..:( *hug*