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-- Posted by jaybiggs at 10:19 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Okay, so me and my boyfriend had a few accidents. (two to be exact) And they happened within two days of each other. They also happened to take place right after my period. (The first time was the day after I finished, the second was two days later)

Now...I realize that the chances of me being pregnant are extremley likely. We both do and are fully prepared to take responsibility for it. But my question is..do these "signs" I'm having indicate tht I'm pregnant, or could it also mean that I'm about to start my period again. (According to my "schedule" I should have started either yesterday, or within the next couple days)

Mkay, here goes:
- I'm getting tired really early in the evening. Like around 9ish, as opposed to like..11 or 12 like usual.
- My boobs seem to have gotten a little bigger.
- My boobs also are very tender
- And ONCE I threw up in the morning. But my bf said that's cuz I was worrying myself too much about it, which I am. Ha.


Also, should I wait to take a pregnancy test until my period is actually late?Or should I do one now? or would it be too early to tell? I don't know! Haha.

And please, I need serious advice. Don't comment with stuff like "Slut, you got yourself knocked up" Or stuff like that. Please. Thanks. :]


-- Posted by OneSquared at 10:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008

paranoid


-- Posted by santana 08 at 10:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Kudos for not using anon!

yea and I think you're just paranoid


-- Posted by Ramellan at 10:22 am on Nov. 19, 2008

i say get your ass to the store and take a test.


-- Posted by smashley at 10:22 am on Nov. 19, 2008

you wont get pregnant right after your period.


-- Posted by spartan09 at 10:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Take a pregnancy test as soon as you can, just so you can be sure one way or another. And you might wanna have your boyfriend over when you do, just for support. Or have him on your phone.. or something..

It sounds like you could be- but you could just have PMS. So... take a test. And then if you're pregnant, see a doctor if you can before anything else.


-- Posted by Arrow at 10:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008

parinoid


-- Posted by LipsOfDeceit at 10:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008

your getting paranoid.
but do a test when its been long enough, just to proove it to yourself.


-- Posted by Chiefette at 10:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008

You can get pregnant right after your period, you can get pregnant any time of the month.  I would suggest taking a pregnancy test if you are worried, but the earliest that you can take one is 5 days before your missed period, and those are only certain brands.  I would probably just wait until you miss your period.


-- Posted by silverrose42 at 10:28 am on Nov. 19, 2008

I would think you need to wait, then take a pregnancy test...


-- Posted by latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"


-- Posted by jaybiggs at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008


They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"

By "accident" I mean we were having sex and he came inside me rather than pulling out.


-- Posted by spartan09 at 10:35 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from jaybiggs at 12:32 pm on Nov. 19, 2008


Quote: from latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"

By "accident" I mean we were having sex and he came inside me rather than pulling out.



I hope you do know that pulling out still has a 35% rate of failure. It's not considered a working form of BC. Use condoms or take the pill. Pulling out is gonna get you pregnant.


-- Posted by latric3 at 10:36 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from jaybiggs at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008


Quote: from latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"

By "accident" I mean we were having sex and he came inside me rather than pulling out.


Doesn't sound like an accident, but seriously we don't need anymore young unplanned pregnancies b/c people can't suppress their sexual desire or geton the pill (that would be most helpful) The pull out method isn't even a recomended contraceptive.


-- Posted by jaybiggs at 10:44 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Okay, Hi. I know that pulling out isn't a good form of Birth Control. I don't need you judging me.
We usually use condoms, but when this happened we were camping and we didn't bring any with us.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:49 am on Nov. 19, 2008

BIRTH CONTROL. TAH DAHHHH. Magically handles it for you.lol.


-- Posted by Chiefette at 11:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 1:49 pm on Nov. 19, 2008


BIRTH CONTROL. TAH DAHHHH. Magically handles it for you.lol.

Birth control fails.  


-- Posted by Chiefette at 11:29 am on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from jaybiggs at 1:32 pm on Nov. 19, 2008


Quote: from latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"

By "accident" I mean we were having sex and he came inside me rather than pulling out.


That isn't an accident.  He knew what he was doing.


-- Posted by babybluebitch at 9:33 pm on Nov. 19, 2008

go get a test to make  sure


-- Posted by jaybiggs at 8:17 am on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Glory at 11:29 am on Nov. 19, 2008


Quote: from jaybiggs at 1:32 pm on Nov. 19, 2008

Quote: from latric3 at 10:32 am on Nov. 19, 2008

They sound like period symptoms, but what kind of "accident?"
 

 By "accident" I mean we were having sex and he came inside me rather than pulling out.


That isn't an accident. He knew what he was doing.



Yeah, he knew what he was doing. I knew what he was doing. I know it wasn't an accident. That's why I put it in quotations. I only said it was an "accident" because I didn't know how else to put it.


-- Posted by Chiefette at 8:23 am on Nov. 20, 2008

Saying it was an accident, implies that you didn't mean for it to happen.  Having sex, without protection, without being on BC, expecting him to pull out, and him not pulling out, when you aren't trying to get pregnant, isn't an accident, it's stupidity.


-- Posted by jaybiggs at 2:44 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Quote: from Glory at 8:23 am on Nov. 20, 2008


Saying it was an accident, implies that you didn't mean for it to happen. Having sex, without protection, without being on BC, expecting him to pull out, and him not pulling out, when you aren't trying to get pregnant, isn't an accident, it's stupidity.

Yeah...whatever. I honestly don't give a flying fuck about what you think. So please refrain from commenting any further on this subject. Thank you, asswipe. :]


-- Posted by hersheyparker at 2:54 pm on Nov. 20, 2008

Its a little too early yet.


-- Posted by Chiefette at 5:41 am on Nov. 21, 2008

Quote: from jaybiggs at 5:44 pm on Nov. 20, 2008


Quote: from Glory at 8:23 am on Nov. 20, 2008

Saying it was an accident, implies that you didn't mean for it to happen.  Having sex, without protection, without being on BC, expecting him to pull out, and him not pulling out, when you aren't trying to get pregnant, isn't an accident, it's stupidity.

Yeah...whatever. I honestly don't give a flying fuck about what you think. So please refrain from commenting any further on this subject. Thank you, asswipe. :]


You posted a thread, you asked for opinions, they were given to you.  Sorry if you don't like them, but you aren't going to always like them.  You are in no position to be calling someone as asswipe.  Thanks.


-- Posted by echoe at 4:35 pm on Nov. 25, 2008

Honey usually you can't get pregnant right after your period. But you can go ahead and take the test just to prove to your-self that you are not. I think that you are just paranoid.


-- Posted by mrspreggo1 at 6:04 am on Nov. 26, 2008

Quote: from echoe at 4:35 pm on Nov. 25, 2008


Honey usually you can't get pregnant right after your period. But you can go ahead and take the test just to prove to your-self that you are not. I think that you are just paranoid.

you can get pregnant any time, even while you are on you period. sperm can live in your body for up to three days and every woman ovulates at a different time. so i would go ahead and take one. but buy one of the two packs and take another one a week later if you have not started yet.


-- Posted by Porkie at 7:27 am on Nov. 26, 2008

Quote: from smashley at 6:22 pm on Nov. 19, 2008


you wont get pregnant right after your period.

Quote: from echoe at 12:35 am on Nov. 26, 2008

Honey usually you can't get pregnant right after your period. But you can go ahead and take the test just to prove to your-self that you are not. I think that you are just paranoid.

Please read up on your sex education. :|
It IS possible to get pregnant at any time.

OP, I'd wait a week, at least. If you're stressing it's possible to prolong your period. If you haven't got it by then, I'd buy 2 different tests. It's up to you, but I wouldn't buy one; because it'd be running through my mind, "What if it's a one-off dodgy one?", so I'd buy two.  

Tender boobs and your breasts getting larger are a sign of PMS. Tiredness can also come at the time of your period and even sickness.  
And your boyfriend could be right, too. You might be worrying yourself about it, that's why you've been sick.

If you usually get those symptoms before your period, though; then it might be your period coming.  

But if you haven't got it in a week, take a test. Or you could get a blood test done now and it'll be 100% accurate.


-- Posted by nikki at 8:34 am on Nov. 26, 2008

Wait a week or so, and if you've not had your period, take a test. They could be pregnancy symptoms, but at the same time, it could be PMT.


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