-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:31 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 I need to call my ex, to talk to her about something.  We don't exactly, get along either. Anyway, if she doesn't pick up, and I gotta leave a message, should I just say "hey its _______, give me a call back when you get the message" or should I leave a message explaining what I need to talk to her about? Which one would she be more likely to call back with? -- Posted by Anonymous Chris at 9:31 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 No. Just say that. -- Posted by lingerie gurl at 9:32 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Explain -- Posted by warrior chick at 9:36 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 just say whatever is on your mind! -- Posted by LoveKay at 10:42 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Just tell her there is something you need to tell her. If you two don't get along too well then she may not call you back 'cause she may think you just want to chat or something stupid. But if you say you need to talk to her about something, it will be bothersome and you two are no longer in a relationship. So don't make it sound like "we gotta have a talk"! -- Posted by nik1 at 12:34 am on Nov. 20, 2008 If she doesn't pick up I would suggest that you leave a message quickly stating why you would like to talk to her. -- Posted by Floire at 2:37 am on Nov. 20, 2008 It's important for you to explain in brief what you want to talk to her about, otherwise she very likely won't call you back.