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-- Posted by Tr0uble89 at 9:34 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
My best friend and her boyfriend are fighting with my other friend - .. my best friend is threatening to fight her, and send an email about her out to everyone and like all this ridiculous child stuff.. I think it's so stupid, like why can't they just sit and talk like adults. My best friend is taking things to the extreme and just being WAY too immature about the whole thing. Ugh, and I'm stuck right in the middle. I just tell them I don't want to hear it and it's between them - but still they insist on telling me - Why can't they just say it to each other stop getting me involved
-- Posted by dreamweaver at 9:39 pm on Nov. 19, 2008
Even though you dont want to get involved... it sounds like they just need the voice of reasoning here to help them out. Go ahead and listen to each person's side and if they ask you what to do- be honest with them and tell them. And tell them that doing these malicious things to each other is only going to make things much more complicated than they should be and that it can hurt you as well. I've been in that position, and it's no picnic. But sometimes, you gotta do the friend thing and help them out when you need to.
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