-- Posted by Enishi at 9:37 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 It's been 3 months since I cut contact to with the ex. she wants to talk to me but is so damn proud, and i'm proud also...but i'm dying to talk to her. Who should "give in" first? -- Posted by jsgirl at 9:38 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 PROUD? More like STUBBORN. -- Posted by byebyebeautyful at 9:40 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 you becasue your the guy -- Posted by Enishi at 9:40 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 exactly so...who usually gives in first, the guy or the girl? -- Posted by Enishi at 9:41 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from byebyebeautyful at 9:40 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 you becasue your the guy Everyone tells me that..but why me???? other than being the guy??? -- Posted by OodleNoodle at 9:46 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Quote: from jsgirl at 9:38 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 PROUD? More like STUBBORN. It's both. -- Posted by LoveKay at 10:35 pm on Nov. 19, 2008 Well, you should consider if it's beneficial that you two talk again or if it will cause problems first. Perhaps that's just the problem with you, as well, that you're just too stubborn and too good to make the first move.