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-- Posted by The Good Guy at 1:08 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

i'm comfortable with alot of people, I have over come that

but still sometimes, even with my closest friends, I can't speak, it's not because I'm scared, but I feel I forced from speaking

it's not exactly because i'm shy

has anyone ever felt this way


-- Posted by Lydia Lenore at 1:08 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

you're weird


-- Posted by hawtshawty at 1:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Yes


-- Posted by Amb3rLynn at 1:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

yah. i know what you mean


-- Posted by tennisplayerV2 at 1:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

ya...all the time...


-- Posted by sadnessness at 1:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Maybe you're just a quiet person?
I recently realised that i am the only quiet person in my group of close friends: the other 5 are really loud and openly opinionated.
So often they just talk over me, and i listen to them instead.


-- Posted by neotreo at 1:09 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

on occasion. i donno why though


-- Posted by x3Giselex3 at 1:10 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

you probobly have a mental block. I think you can overcome this though !! =] stay strong and talk to someone who cares about you !!


-- Posted by Lally at 1:10 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Maybe your just not as talkative.


-- Posted by The Good Guy at 1:11 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Quote: from lally at 1:10 pm on Nov. 21, 2008


Maybe your just not as talkative.

yeah, i'm not but i want people to know that I care about them and that I want to be their friend


-- Posted by tell me again at 1:11 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

I feel like I can't speak if it's a complicated topic that requires a lot of mental organisation to say, or if I'm feeling absent-minded and incoherent in general.

I'm not sure if that's what you experience though. Is it just certain topics or in general that you can't speak?


-- Posted by runthespread at 1:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Yeah, it's just not feeling the need to automatically to fill the social interaction but it requires you to.


-- Posted by tell me again at 1:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Quote: from The Good Guy at 1:11 pm on Nov. 21, 2008


Quote: from lally at 1:10 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Maybe your just not as talkative.

yeah, i'm not but i want people to know that I care about them and that I want to be their friend


I have trouble saying affectionate things


-- Posted by KKKay at 1:13 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

yea


-- Posted by hersheyparker at 1:14 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

I prefer not to speak sometimes.


-- Posted by The Good Guy at 1:14 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Quote: from tell me again at 1:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008


Quote: from The Good Guy at 1:11 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Quote: from lally at 1:10 pm on Nov. 21, 2008

Maybe your just not as talkative.
 

 yeah, i'm not but i want people to know that I care about them and that I want to be their friend


I have trouble saying affectionate things


yeah, i can't even fuckin mention their name when I talk to them


-- Posted by Catacomb at 11:38 am on Nov. 22, 2008

you just dont like talking whats weird about htat


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