-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:36 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 My ex and I broke up a few months back, and remained friends. Well, I met this other guy, and my ex acted happy for me and said he didn't have a problem with it at all. But recently, he's been acting INSANE. He got mad at me for not telling him this guy was coming to see me and decided to end our friendship, saying I "wasn't a real friend and kept too many secrets from him". I've tired talking this through with him and told him that just because we're friends, doesn't mean I have to tell him every detail about my life, but he maintains that I do, and he's so jealous of this other guy that it scares me. So I honestly don't know what I should do--should I give him some time and then try to be his friend again? he lied to me about another girl to save his own butt when we were still together and claims I pushed him into lying, yet he says I've lied to him by not telling him everything. -- Posted by HatesYou at 1:38 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Just fucking leave him.  It's the type of friend you dont need. -- Posted by bigdutchman at 1:39 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 If he's acting like that he's not your friend. -- Posted by 007bondgirl08 at 1:39 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 well if he jealous now he's gonna be jealous later, so peraps just leave it for a while. -- Posted by bornonmars75 at 1:42 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 a shitty one? -- Posted by FallingAwayFromMe at 1:47 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Its understandable, wouldn't you be upset if you knew your ex was seeing someone else and you weren't fully over them, or if your friend was always hanging out with someone else and didn't have the time for you? But he does seem like he is being a bit of an arse, give him time to cool down, and if he makes the effort to fix things (without lecturing you) then maybe he is worth keeping as a friend. -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:53 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Quote: from FallingAwayFromMe at 1:47 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Its understandable, wouldn't you be upset if you knew your ex was seeing someone else and you weren't fully over them, or if your friend was always hanging out with someone else and didn't have the time for you? But he does seem like he is being a bit of an arse, give him time to cool down, and if he makes the effort to fix things (without lecturing you) then maybe he is worth keeping as a friend. i understand he still likes me, but i make plenty of time for him and my other friends, and i've been there for him like crazy lately, and he admittied last my friendship means nothing to him. -- Posted by filliam at 1:54 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Well he obviously still has feelings for you if he's getting mad at you for seeing the guy.  When he said he's happy for you he's obviously just trying to be a nice guy and think about your feelings and so that you can continue being friends.   -- Posted by Catacomb at 11:38 am on Nov. 22, 2008 a not a friend kind