-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:11 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 So a cute girl sits next to me.   She's popular, funny, and pretty outgoing with her friends. The thing is, we don't talk, and I'm sort of too shy/nervous to.  And I don't think she has interest in me anyway.   Being that she hasn't initiated any conversation with me, should I just assume she thinks I'm just another average, unattractive guy?   I know what you're thinking: JUST TALK TO HER@@@; but, it's really not that easy for me   -- Posted by bordmb at 3:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 srry but its how the world works -- Posted by MixedDelight at 3:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 She hasn't noticed you yet. Start conversation. -- Posted by Kitty Kiska at 3:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 If she has no interest in you then there is no point for you to run after her like a love sick puppy... -- Posted by SpM at 3:12 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Assuming that is just giving yourself an easy way out. Keep trying. -- Posted by AndWhenHeFalleth at 3:14 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Keep trying?  From what you've said, it appears you haven't begun. Start trying. -- Posted by Markyy720 at 3:15 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 buy a nice pair of binoculars and find a tree near her house,then you can watch her write in her diary and see if she likes you..be careful though, sometimes they call the cops -- Posted by RawrFace at 3:19 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Maybe she's shy too. Try starting a conversation, the worst that can happen is she doesnt show much interest, but at least you know youve tried and then you can deal with it and move on x -- Posted by funnypajamas at 3:22 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 well to be honest, you havnt really tried so "keep trying" isnt really a good option. i would say you should "start trying".  unless shes really outgoing she might not have any reason to talk to you so just spark up a convo, even if its just random asides during class