-- Posted by Dyreft at 3:21 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 I am 18, he is 9 or 10, I don't know and don't care. Anyway, he is always coming over to my apartment because my mother is always having men she meets on the internet over to her house. So she forces the little brat on me. When he is over here, he thinks he has the right to do whatever he wants. He called his friend just a minute ago even after I told him "No the pizza is almost here". Now I'm here on the computer while him and his friend are being loud and annoying. He does this all the time, he doesn't listen and basically if you look up the word brat in a dictionary you will see his picture. See, my mother doesn't make him listen, he gets away with whatever he wants and nothing happens. She calls him a little angel when in reality he is a little devil. I got called by his school because I watch him every weekend and they wanted me to come pick him up because apparently he thought it would be funny to stuff toilet paper in all the toilets and flood the bathrooms. As for my mother, I HATE her, she told me to get out of the house the day I turned 18. Luckily my grandmother knew someone who owned apartments so I have one rent free. Anyway, the reason she told me to get out? She invites men she meets over the internet to her house to have sex. I know this because my brother walked in on her and a man once. She has been married 4 times, once to my dad, once to a loser who she divorced 1 week after marriage, and twice to my brothers dad. If you looked up the word whore in the dictionary you would see her picture. She also thinks that I have the 'obligation" of paying her $100 a week because of all the care she gave me as a kid. Well let me tell you this, she verbally abused me as a child, she hit me, and she locked me out of the house a few times. She would hit me whenever I got something below an A on my report card. She verbally abused me anytime I made a small error on anything. I was tempted to call child services myself, but I never could bring myself to do it. Oh well, I'm out of her life now and I want out of my brother's life because of how stressed he makes me. Anyone have any tips for me on how to deal with this? -- Posted by suhploda at 3:23 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 ur moms a slide. tell her to spend some time with her son instead of her many boyfriends -- Posted by HeavenShallBurn at 3:24 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 get your g-ma to take care of your bro, or simply tell your mom fuck you and get her COMPLETLY out of her life. But I mean I believe that the only reason your brother is annoying is becuas ehe wants to be with u becuase he looks up to you as a big brother and maybe as a father, so I mean fuck your mom but lighten up on your brother. It seems he has no male-father figurecept like come-and-go guys your mom meets. -- Posted by StopXXwatch at 3:24 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 NO! You cannot leave your little brother! He needs you. If your mother did that unfeeling stuff to you she's probably doing it to your brother too! You can't leave him alone! -- Posted by Dyreft at 3:26 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 If he looks up to me and wants to be with me, then why is it EVERY time he is over here, it basically makes it hell. Causing trouble, cursing, making prank calls, ect. -- Posted by LindaRains93 at 3:27 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Well I work at a day care center so im kinda use to this stuff, first thing u need to know love is that technically this is your apartment and your money and so you dont have to send your mother anything. Second im sorry about your childhood and whats going on right now, buts its basically life. You need to show ur brother who is in charge, since your mother wont. Start by calling up his friends mother and explaining to her its dinner time at ur house and he cant have any friends over. If he starts to pitch a fit, sit down at the couch or computer and watch Tv and ignore it. Children pitch fits all the time wait till its over, he will stop he will get hungery and after awhile he will find that the more u ignore him the less his fits will work on you. But this negative look wont help you at all love, try and find ways to work around it. If u need more advice im more than happy to help. Send me a messgae anytime. -- Posted by HeavenShallBurn at 3:32 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Ooooo if its liek that, maybe u need to set him straight. Punish him. Then when he notices u aint a lil pussy and u have balls he will respect you. And uif your mom gets angry, say fuck you and dont let him come back...