-- Posted by misssmadejavuu at 11:19 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Before you? I do. One of my exes refused to tell me though. -- Posted by isobel at 11:20 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 My current boyfriend has never given me an exact number, but I know a few so I can guess. -- Posted by sdkarr at 11:20 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 yes -- Posted by Jlee at 11:23 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 yes of course. im trying to firgure it out lol -- Posted by See Me Now at 11:23 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 I don't currently have a boyfriend, but my most recent ex was a hard core man whore, and I know it was a lot more than he told me it was. I'm pretty sure he played both teams too, so I mentally double my presumed count. -- Posted by ang42490424 at 11:24 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 I do, lets me know if I should have him checked at the clinic and wait 6 months until having sex. You never know. O.O -- Posted by FurryPanther at 11:26 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 I don't see how that's relevant to a relationship. Do you need to tell them how many times you've eaten creme brule? Or how many times you've driven a car? A little more relevant, how many people you've kissed, or how many times you've had sex with your ex? No. Those aren't relevant to a relationship. I wouldn't hide it if they asked, but the knowledge of that number is not relevant to me. FP -- Posted by xicheeto at 11:29 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Yes because you need to know if you're with someone potentially dangerous to your health. But no because the truth hurts sometimes. And i don't like being asked that question either. -- Posted by zamrambo at 11:34 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 no. -- Posted by Miss Vanity at 11:42 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Yea. STDS! -- Posted by blufindr at 11:49 pm on Nov. 21, 2008 Yes. 0. -- Posted by nik1 at 1:55 am on Nov. 22, 2008 My gf was a virgin at 21 when I met her four years ago.  I know for sure she was and I am still with her.  It's a major reason why we are still together and plan to be for the rest of our lives.   Girls with multiple partners are a dime a dozen.   -- Posted by kaylar28 at 8:59 am on Nov. 22, 2008 it depends. i would rather not know..because once its brought up once..it will probably be brought up again but for safety reasons( stds or anything of that sort) i would rather just have him get checked without knowing how many people he has been with.. -- Posted by tearsinheaven at 11:48 am on Nov. 22, 2008 yes, i do like to know. it's kind of important to know, in my opinion.