-- Posted by jamesjtr at 11:25 am on Nov. 22, 2008 I go to cadets with her im nearly 14 shes just 15, what xmas present can i get her thats appropriate even though secretly i love her with all my heart but don't want her to know? please help -- Posted by kay dee at 11:25 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Necklace. :) -- Posted by taraxgoesxboom at 11:32 am on Nov. 22, 2008 I think the teddy and a necklace or bracelet. You could make it look like the bear was wearing it and it give it to her like that. That way it would be more of a "Oh how cute!" kinda thing, instead of too romantic (since you're just friends right now.) If the gift giving goes well though, I suggest you ask her to hang out sometime, good luck =) -- Posted by jamesjtr at 11:35 am on Nov. 22, 2008 Thanks i will, you have deffinatly helped thanks loads x -- Posted by The Persuader at 12:17 pm on Nov. 22, 2008 Go ahead and give her a teddy. If u secretly love her but u don't want her to know, don't buy her expensive stuff. She'll easily figure u out.